Know someone who has a strong sense of justice with a keen eye for beauty and aesthetics? Are they also particularly fashionable and flirtatious? If so, ask them about their birthday—they just might be a Libra. Those born between September 22 and October 23, are known for their key Libra personality traits: being fair, friendly, and romantic. Don’t take my word for it—just look at Bella Hadid and Kim Kardashian, notable names in the fashion and beauty industries—and Libra natives.

Symbolized by the scales of justice, Libra has a penchant for keeping the peace in every way they can. So much so, that they typically take on the mediator role in their friend group, ensuring everyone’s feelings are taken care of. As an air sign, Libra is sociable and relationship-oriented. “Libra is one of the most social signs due to its Venus rulership,” says astrologer Narayana Montúfar. In this case, they’re very friendly, they like to have different types of friends.

“Libra is one of the most social signs due to its Venus rulership.”—Narayana Montúfar

Plus, they’re ruled by Venus, meaning they’re the romantics among the air signs, giving Libras their signature coquettish appeal. It’s also why during Libra season, your calendar may fill up with social commitments or why you may have love on the brain.

Want to learn a little more about these balanced, fair romantics? Below, astrologers share everything you need to know about Libra: their traits, career matches, and astrological compatibility.

Libra Dates

Libra season happens roughly around September 22 and October 23 each year (sometimes Libra season dates are a day or two off, depending on the year). These dates refer to when the sun ingresses through the sign of Libra, also commencing the fall equinox every year.

You’d be considered a Libra sun if your birthday falls between these dates, otherwise known as the sign you read your horoscope for. If that’s the case, you’ll likely align with mainstay Libra traits: just, social, and a bit (OK, extremely) flirty.

While you may relate to a lot of these personality quirks, it’s not uncommon to raise a brow at some of them. After all, your birth chart is so much more than your sun sign, and some people are more inclined to resonate with their ascendant (aka rising sign) or even their moon sign. Therefore, take your sun sign components with a grain of salt, and don’t forget to look at the whole of your birth chart to get the big scoop of your astrological personality by plugging in your birth time, date, and birth location into an online generator like this one.

Let’s say your sun sign is Libra, for example, your moon or rising sign could be Virgo. Maybe you don’t have an insatiable social battery as Libras tend to have, but you do agree with having Virgo’s hyper-zoomed-in eye for detail. It could be that you align with one of these “big three” placements. Nevertheless, you’ll probably be able to relate to Libra traits if they fall in any of your big three signs.

Libra Personality Traits

Libra is the sign of pleasure, beauty, and relationships. They’re the seventh sign in the zodiac, which means they’re associated with the corresponding seventh house in the wheel, the house that deals with partnerships and collaborations. They’re great team players and love to be in relationships. That, coupled with their air element, is why they’re sociable negotiators.

Since Libras are ruled by planet Venus, the planet that governs aesthetics, love, and money, they appreciate all the luxuries life has to offer and love to indulge in decadent art, food, and expensive goods.“ Libra is social and can get along with just about anyone,” says Rachel Lang, astrologer, psychic medium, and author of Modern Day Magic, adding “they see themselves as peacemakers and frequently play the mediator’s role.”

They’re super into their physical appearance: their style, aesthetics, and fashion sense. “Venus rules the sign of Libra,” says astrologer Maria Sofia Marmanides. “That means that the themes of love, sex, and relationships are kind of baked into the core of who Libra is. This is somebody that is always looking for that proverbial or literal other half.” Unsurprisingly, Libras seek out connections of all types, but especially in love and sex. These lovey-dovey signs believe life is best spent with someone you love by your side.

“This is somebody that is always looking for that proverbial or literal other half.”—Maria Sofia Marmanides

• Fair
• Sociable
• Indecisive
• Creative
• Indulgent
• Diplomatic
• Conflict-avoidant

What are Libra strengths?

Libras are true charmers: They are generous, kind, and thoughtful, with a curious mind and an excellent sense of style. “They tend to think of others before themselves,” says Lang. “They make excellent dinner-party hosts, as they shower their guests with compliments and go the extra mile.” They’re good at making others feel included and even special, which explains why they have so many friends who adore them!

Libra’s desire for justice and equality doesn’t come from a place of authoritarianism (*cough*, Capricorn, *cough*), but rather from a place of concern for those who are mistreated, and their empathy is a major strength. “That need for justice, that want for fairness, is really all about compassion,” says Marmanides. “Before they come to any kind of firm conclusion on something, they really do want to consider the other person’s needs, the other person’s wants and motivations.”

Libras are analytical and love to see the world from other points of view, giving them the superpower of objectivity. These signs are incredibly unbiased, making them able to see both sides of an argument. Of course, that’s the case—the Libra symbol is the scales of justice, after all.

This quality is also reflective of Libra’s ruling element—air. “The element of air is associated with mental cognition, with thinking, with intellectuals, with philosophers,” says Marmanides. “So when you put that energy together with Libra, some of their most positive qualities are how often they’re deeply in thought. They really do want to consider every angle, they want to be fair.”

What are Libra weaknesses?

Libra is the sign of balance; as such, conflicts and arguments can send Libras into a spiral. Rough waters aren’t fun, and Libras are all about having a good time—so don’t expect them to pick a fight, but instead, they bottle up their emotions for the sake of harmony. “They tend to avoid conflict, or, if they find themselves involved in a conflict, they mediate as soon as possible to restore a state of balance and equilibrium,” says Lang.

Since Libras can get caught up on the pros and cons of every side, making definitive decisions isn’t their strong suit. “They’re great mediators of conflict, but are challenged when they have internal mental battles between two options,” says Lang. “Going out on a first date or to a special event, Libra might change clothes in front of the mirror several times before deciding on the perfect outfit. And perfection is another Libra pursuit; they fear disappointing others or making the wrong decision.”

Libras may not see their vanity as a weakness, but it can prevent them from getting to know themselves and others deeply. If they’re not feeling confident about their outfit or looks that day, it could really dampen their day or worse—damage their self-esteem. “They really care about things like art, fashion, appearances,” says Marmanides, “and yes, you could look at that as superficial, but it’s really not. Their love of fashion and self-maintenance stems from wanting to make the world a more beautiful place.

Libra Likes and Dislikes

What makes a Libra happy?

More than anything, being in the company of their best friends makes Libra the happiest. “Libras are really happy when they’re surrounded by people,” Montúfar says. They love to engage in conversation with people and often find friends wherever they go. If they’re in an environment where they can meet new friends or catch up with old ones, they’re content.

Plus, they can easily see the beauty in life and chase after all that fills their minds and hearts with gratification. “They’re really good at doing the pleasure thing in life,” says Montúfar. The hedonistic air sign is an advocate for a good time and striking harmony and satisfaction in every aspect of life, so they feel at peace when they’ve got enough balance to indulge in self-care.

Because of their proclivity to art, creative expression is the spice of life for Libras. Displays of artistic genius like fashion shows, art galleries, theater productions, and indie film screenings are all especially thrilling for them. “Libra likes anything in terms of fashion, art, [and] beauty,” Marmanides says. “They’re an art gallery kind of person, or maybe somebody who’s meticulous about their appearance. Not in a Virgo type of meticulousness, but in a fashion-forward, cover of Vogue kind. Very up [to date] on the trends.”

What annoys a Libra?

Put simply, Libras dislike conflict—and they’ll avoid it at all costs. But that can also be a problem, Montúfar explains. In an effort to not rock the boat, they’ll keep their grievances under wraps and allow them to fester until it’s no longer possible to conceal them. “They’re not good at being honest about how they feel. Libra is the type to leave you on read just because they don’t want to tell you, ‘this bothered me,’” Montúfar adds. Difficult conversations aren’t their forte.

During periods of social unrest, you may notice your Libra loved one become extremely excited or agitated. A disruption in justice, especially on a massive scale, deeply disturbs Libras. This is why argumentative “tough guy” types turn them off almost immediately. “Things that feel unfair, things that feel unjust, especially from a social level, are really going to make them upset because they have a lot of compassion,” notes Marmanides. “Cruelty, violence, or ugly displays, if you will, are definitely a major dislike.”

Libra Compatibility With Other Zodiac Signs

Astrologically compatibility can’t be discerned by sun signs alone. That’s because your sun sign determines your key personality traits, and compatibility is much more nuanced than that.

Think about it, your birth chart is riddled with a bunch of different planetary placements and alignments, and these are important, too. Even if you’re compatible with someone else’s sun sign, your moon (referring to your emotional temperament) and Venus (which denote romantic needs and desires) signs may clash, making you mostly incompatible. The alternative can also be said; you may not be compatible by your sun sign, but you could very well have a harmonious relationship due to having a balanced moon and Venus sign.

These traits can help determine Libra compatibility—or rather which of the fellow zodiac signs Libra is most and least compatible with.

With that being said, there are some zodiac signs compatible with Libra personality traits, and some Libra qualities that don’t jive with others. Below, astrologers break down which zodiac signs work well (and don’t) with Libra.

Which zodiac signs are Libras most compatible with?

Libra will work hard to get along with any star sign that sparks their interest, but Lang says they might hold a special romantic place in their heart for fellow air signs Aquarius and Gemini.

Aquarius can find commonality with Libra in their love of justice, and moreover, they make a perfect combination on an intuitive and intellectual level. Libra can admire Aquarius’ out-of-the-box ideas and can respect and understand the water bearer’s need for freedom, astrologer Emily Newman told Well+Good. Gemini and Libra can also find plenty of common ground between them, as both look to stimulate their minds, whether through free-flowing conversation or new experiences.

Libra will also fare well with fire signs Leo and Sagittarius. Leo will keep Libra entertained, while Libra will fuel Leo’s fire and encourage the celestial lion to shine. Sagittarius can also be a great companion for Libra, as they are both social and like to embark on adventures. Although Libra and Aries are opposite zodiac signs, they can get on well, too—that is, if Libra learns to assert themselves with headstrong Aries, and Aries shows adoration for the sign of the scales.

Which zodiac signs are Libras least compatible with?

Generally, Libra might have trouble getting along with water signs Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces. Water signs are emotional, sometimes to a fault, with a tendency to stew in their feelings, while Libra prefers to intellectualize theirs, and this can cause friction on an emotional level. It’s also a matter of expression. Water signs are often super-reserved hermits, especially when it comes to their emotions, while air sign Libra is as social as they come (but they tend to struggle emotionally). For that reason, these signs have trouble relating to one another.

Earth signs Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn are also poor matches for Libra. Earth signs are known for their practical, steadfast, and, at times, stubborn nature. On the other hand, air sign energy is a lot more carefree and easygoing. If they cannot learn how to compromise with Libra, this can lead to a power imbalance in their relationship, and either Libra will twist themselves in knots to keep the peace or take flight.

Libra in Love, Relationships, and Sex

Although Libra has a reputation for being indecisive, one specific area where indecision isn’t an issue for the sign is when it comes to falling in love. These hopeless romantics may well fall in love with the very idea of love. However, working to find a bit of independence outside their relationship is important, especially given that they prioritize balance.

“One little-known fact about Libra is that, though they are born under the partnership sign, they actually need personal space,” adds Lang. “Libras who stay single have learned valuable lessons in self-reliance and self-determination. For Libra to have a true partnership, they need to balance both.”

To be the best companion possible to this sign, Lang says to “try to be thoughtful with the Libra in your life. Notice how they go out of their way to do things for you. Learn their love language, and use it regularly. Libra will reciprocate. Don’t stir too much drama or create unnecessary conflict.”

Their airiness often manifests in a love of chatting and flirting—even for Libras who skew more introverted. So to get along well with a Libra, allow them the space to move from one conversation to the next, especially at a social gathering. “Let them work the room without holding them back,” Lang says. “They enjoy new experiences and meeting new people.”

In terms of sensuality, Libras deeply crave romance and the bigger and more extravagant the gesture, the better. The Venusian sign is turned on by candlelit dinners, bubble baths, and edible chocolate underwear—the whole thing! If you want to bring a Libra to climax, don’t skimp on the romantic foreplay.

Libra in Friendships

This amicable social butterfly usually keeps a wide network of friends from different walks of life. According to Marmanides, Libras love to surround themselves with pals who fulfill different aspects of their personalities. They’re likely to have several different rotating friend groups, all brought together by different common interests.

“Libra is one of the best friends that you can have,” says Marmanides. “Libras have multiple people who are willing to vouch for them because of their loyalty, because of their compassion, and because of the fun that they bring. They’re fun people to be around.” Plus, they’ll listen to you talk all day and give you objective advice.

These friendships help tether the airy sign, who ironically often find other areas of their life unbalanced, says Lang. “Balance is something they’re striving for but rarely achieving,” Lang says. “They can go to extremes to find their balance. Once they do, though, they feel happy. Libra also needs relationships for happiness, to feel deep connections with others.”

Libra in Work and Career

In workplace settings, Marmanides says that Libras thrive in managerial roles, especially ones that require task delegation and good teamwork—which makes sense given that the sign is one of the zodiac’s cardinal signs who have the reputation of being self-starters. “When it comes to delegating tasks, Libras are a lot better at it,” says Marmanides. “They’re very reliable, they’re very dependable, because they also want to make sure that they’re making your life easier, and you’re making their life easier.”

Leadership aside, Montúfar explains that Libras are excellent team players. “They’re great at bringing people together,” says Montúfar. However, how well they work depends on whether they like their work, per Montúfar, because of how talkative they are, if their headspace isn’t all the way there, they can definitely goof off. It should also be noted that while their cardinal energy can help bring balance, they struggle with decision-making, which is a weakness that can hinder their ability to lead a team.

The bottom line is, that a Libra is a people-person, especially in the workplace. Montúfar says the air sign thrives in roles that require Zoom meetings. Why? “Because they’re going to be talking, they’re going to be dealing with people,” Montúfar says.

Here are the best and worst careers for Libras.

What are the best careers for Libras?

Venus impacts Libra’s fairness, Montúfar says, but it’s because Saturn is exalted in Libra (aka Libra is the strongest sign for Saturn) that explains, “Why we see Libra being the negotiator,” explains Montúfar. Couple their Venus ruler with their air sign grouping, Libras are known to be diplomatic and can put their emotions aside to look at a situation objectively, says Montúfar, and they often advocate for those they see facing injustices or unfairness. They’d do well in careers like lawyers, judges, and human resources, Montúfar says.

Libra’s social skills come in handy in their professional life and for that reason, they do well in public relations or social media, explains Montúfar. “I think that social media would be great because it combines the beauty element of having to come up with posts with the social interactions,” Montúfar adds.

Plus, Libras are skilled artists, too because of their affinity for beauty and the arts. “Libra is the sign that rules design,” explains Montúfar, so it’s not uncommon for the air sign to be drawn to careers that are aesthetic-driven, like interior or graphic design, “because beauty is a big thing for the zodiac sign.” An artist or art director could also work well for the air sign.

What are the worst careers for Libras?

When it comes to the worst careers for Libras, they may struggle to assimilate into analytical roles like data analytics or editing, says Montúfar. Despite their logical air sign mindset, Libras are extremely social creatures, so crunching numbers or data could feel cumbersome. They could feel overwhelmed by the paperwork-heavy side of litigation, but when they’re passionate about a case, they will find a creative solution in order to ensure their work environment, and the quality of their work, are harmonious and seamless.

Careers that involve gathering word-heavy information or researching topics may be a bad idea for Libra, who is more drawn toward design and creativity than they are analytics. “They should avoid anything that requires them to be focused on research or anything like that. That would bore them to death as well,” Montúfar says.

Montúfar also includes editing as one of the worst careers for Libra, since it’s too focused on the details. According to her, Libras require a colorful workspace that allows them to exercise their artistic talent, which can be bogged down by an editing role.

Libra in Friendships

This amicable social butterfly usually keeps a wide network of friends from different walks of life. According to Marmanides, Libras love to surround themselves with pals who fulfill different aspects of their personalities. They’re likely to have several different rotating friend groups, all brought together by different common interests.

“Libra is one of the best friends that you can have,” says Marmanides. “Libras have multiple people who are willing to vouch for them because of their loyalty, because of their compassion, and because of the fun that they bring. They’re fun people to be around.”

These friendships help tether the airy sign, who ironically often find other areas of their life unbalanced, says Lang. “Balance is something they’re striving for but rarely achieving,” Lang says. “They can go to extremes to find their balance. Once they do, though, they feel happy. Libra also needs relationships for happiness, to feel deep connections with others.”

Libra in Family Dynamics 

In family dynamics, “Libra will pretend that everything’s always okay,” says Montúfar. In other words, they avoid facing family drama and often sweep their own feelings under the rug, according to Montúfar. It’s not uncommon for Libra to play both sides when faced with familial conflict, or just not choose a side at all. However, it won’t stop the social sign from trying to understand all sides of the situation.

Plus, Libras are the social butterfly of the family, who will always keep the family entertained at functions, even being the one behind the party planning. They’re great hosts and often are the masterminds behind the design of their homes.

And if they’re having an off-time at home, you’ll likely never hear about it, Montúfar says, because they’re not the type to burden others with the shadow side of themselves—remember, they’re all about presentation and beauty!

Advice for Libra

The biggest challenge that Libras faces, according to Montúfar, deals with decision-making. They’re often stuck at a crossroads, due to their need to strike balance and harmony in all situations, and it can be a hard truth for Libra natives to accept that sometimes, that’s just not possible. They’re prone to analysis paralysis, as Montúfar says, “I think that good advice for Libra is just to dare to make a decision to be a little quicker instead of just pondering and wondering and like getting everyone’s opinions. It’s good for Libra to be a little bit more impulsive.”

If you struggle with that, Montúfar says to refer to your sister sign (or the sign that sits opposite of you in the zodiac wheel), in this case, it’s Aries. “Embrace the Aries energy, the fire, impulsiveness of Aries. Even though we have a tendency to think that for an Aries so weakness, for Libra, it’s really good to feel strongly about something too, to be a little bit more impulsive and trust that they’re making the right decision,” explains Montúfar.

Confrontation is an issue for Libras, as well, because they don’t want to make the air tense—even if they themselves feel like they’re not taken into account. It’s important for Libras to run toward these conflicts, rather than run from them. A balance between impulsivity and fairness can be achieved, you lovely Libra—just step into your power and believe that your emotions, needs, and desires matter just as much as others, too!