Your Secret Turn-Ons, Based on Your Zodiac Sign

Discovering our secret turn-ons and sexual desires can be a delicious process (especially during Valentine's Day). But if we want to cut through the complexities and get directly to the point, we can access information about our erotic longings with the most basic knowledge of our sun sign (or a lover’s sign). Remember, every part of your body is a potential erogenous zone, from your inner elbow to the back of your knee to your eyelids. And when you bring in astrology, all of this can go to a whole new erotic level.  

In astrology, each sign is associated with particular body parts and systems. We call this body rulership. This can lead to more sensitivity in some areas of the body. And, well, the parts of our body that are more sensitive can also be sources of more potential pleasure. 

From kinky to vanilla and all the erotic tastes in between, read on to learn your zodiac turn-ons and erogenous zones according to astrological body rulership. 

Aries

You’re the most feral sign of the zodiac (in a good way), and you’re widely known to come on hot and fast. Aries, as the first sign of the zodiac, starts at the top — your sign rules the head. During solo sex, pay attention to your head, all the regions of your face, and ears. Try gently running your fingers over them before you go directly for your favorite sex toy. Ask your lover for a gentle scalp massage and little kisses on your eyelids. Know that sometimes slowing down and edging can be hella sexy, whether you’re alone or with a partner. 

Taurus

You have a reputation for having big, sensual appetites, Taurus. You may also get off on exquisite five-course dinners or luxe linens, and that’s nothing to be ashamed of. If you tend to get into sexual ruts, try to change up your patterns and pathways to orgasm. Knowing what you like is a fantastic skill, but even your tastes can change over time. Taurus rules the lips, jaw, throat, and neck, so experiment with self or partner massage in these areas, using flavored lip balms, body oils, and any edible items or lube that taste as good as they smell.  

Gemini

You’re the sapiosexual of the stars, and your genius precedes you, Gemini. If someone can teach you something, that’s an aphrodisiac. Mercury is your planetary ruler, and you’re given to nervous excitement, which can get in the way of calm and centered sexual connections—even with yourself. Your sign rules the arms, hands, and lungs, so deep breathing exercises before, during, and after sex can be both a significant turn-on and a relaxation modality. Your hands are super sensitive, and you can experience them as an active erogenous zone, whether a lover is touching them or you’re using them to explore someone else’s body. Both the backs of your palms and your fingertips are pleasure centers. 

Cancer 

Although you’re known for being moody and super emo, your exquisitely-tuned sensitivity is your best sexual asset, along with your remarkable intuition. Cancer rules the breasts, stomach, and lymphatic system, so regardless of gender, nipple play can be a huge turn-on, as can pre-coital lymphatic massage and anything that involves eating in bed (before and after sex will also do). You might be capable of experiencing (or giving) a nipple-gasm. Whatever you do, don’t forget that dessert is  as important as the main course, so do not neglect aftercare. 

Leo 

You’re known for your fiery confidence and fearlessness in the spotlight, Leo. That natural glow is damn sexy and undeniably magnetic. Your sign rules the heart, and when you open yours, you can draw from a deep well of pleasure that helps you play instead of perform. Try a few heart-opening yoga poses before masturbating or having sex with a partner. Your back and especially your solar plexus are big-time erogenous zones, so ask your partner to stimulate and massage these areas or be your own masseuse with a massage gun or acupressure mat before solo sex sessions. 

Virgo 

Don’t let perfectionism get in the way of a good and dirty time, Virgo. Your sign rules the digestive system and sympathetic nervous systems, so anxiety can run high when you feel out of sorts. Your abdomen is an erogenous zone, and paying special attention to your belly can be a major turn-on. But the best aphrodisiac of all is anything that reduces physical anxiety, from deep breathing exercises to a workout a few hours before sex. In a state of complete calm, you might find that your mind is dirtier than you previously thought. And when your inner critic’s voice is turned off, you are totally turned on. 

Libra 

No one gets off on being surrounded by beauty quite the way that you do, Libra. Your sign rules the lumbar region and lower back (not to mention the kidneys), so ensure your core is strong. You’re secretly turned on by both gentle and emphatic attention to your lower back and enjoy both giving and receiving massage or back scratching. Sitting up with your legs wrapped around your partner’s body and behind their back is a super-hot position to experiment with. You are often concerned with aesthetics, but there is no shame in answering the call of the wild and getting in touch with your inner animal. 

Scorpio

You come with a reputation for being the most sexual sign of the zodiac, but what most people don’t understand about you is that it’s not about sex; it’s about intimacy. Getting into your circle of trust can require partners to pass certain psychological tests, but your emotional vulnerability is also your superpower. Scorpio rules the genitals, and this region of the body tends to be more sensitive to stimulation than for the average non-Scorpio. Experimenting with a variety of non-penetrative kinds of sexual touch as a lead-up to genital stimulation can make getting down to business so much hotter. And remember, the clitoris is a much larger organ than what we can see from just the tip, so gentle pressure to your lower belly, right above your pubic bone, can be very arousing. In short, your secret turn-on is endless foreplay. 

Sagittarius 

Sagittarius, you have a reputation for bold excess and aren’t usually afraid of experimentation. Like the half-horse, half-human your sign symbolizes, you always seek freedom. Your secret turn-on is that you sometimes want to be taught rather than be the teacher. Your sign rules the butt, hips, and thighs, so attention to this area of your body (and your lover’s body) makes sex even hotter. Hip-thrusting and butt-grabbing, even during solo sex, can next-level your pleasure. And if you want to achieve peak pleasure, experiment with outdoor sex. 

Capricorn 

You’re known for self-discipline so intense that it’s sacrosanct, but what most people don’t know about you is that sometimes you don’t want to be in charge of anything. When it comes to your desires, you may feel like you have to work hard to achieve something when all you really have to do is show up and let your body feel what it feels. The Capricorn sign rules the skin, teeth, and bones, and one of your secret turn-ons is gentle biting or being bitten all over your body. You might even be into hickeys (on a lover or one left on you). Any sexual act that involves being on your knees can also be super hot. 

Aquarius

You’re the sexual Einstein of the zodiac, and that’s why people are fascinated by you in ways you may not fully understand. Raising your freak flag high and experimenting with sex free of other’s judgment can be life-changing and liberating. Aquarius rules the veins, circulation, electrical impulses of the body, and the ankles. Your secret turn-on might be a futuristic sexual scenario where you roleplay with a partner, putting yourselves in an imaginary sci-fi setting. Try electro-stimulation toys, and don’t skimp on the sex tech because electricity ups your ante.  

Pisces

Sex magic is your specialty, Pisces, even if you’re not trying to cast any spells. As an intuitive powerhouse with sublime psychic powers, you can see into a lover’s soul even when you’re not actively trying to take a spiritual X-ray. Pisces rules the feet and the lymphatic system. Pedicures, reflexology, foot massage, and gentle kisses on your feet can be a huge secret turn-on, as can wearing sexy sky-high heels. You could be into having your feet admired but not touched. Sex is so spiritual for you that not touching at all is incredibly hot. Connecting with a lover in the astral realm is something you can get into because your dreams can feel so real. You are the sexual healer of the zodiac, and you should be getting as much pleasure as you give. 

Looking for even more cosmic insights? Check out your full February 2025 monthly horoscope, or take a look at your 2025 romance horoscope.