Is It Even Worth Dating Someone When Your Zodiac Signs Aren’t Compatible? Experts Explain

Fresh out of a breakup in 2022, I did an experiment: date every zodiac sign. While I didn’t get as far as I’d hoped, I did learn one thing—as an Aquarius, I do not vibe well with water signs. So imagine my surprise when I started dating a Cancer—a sign that’s cosmically incompatible with mine—and actually got along with, and who I’d even go as far as calling our relationship soul mate level territory. But being a consumer of astrology, I’m still a little bit apprehensive about compatibility horoscope and what the stars say I’m not destined to be with, per my birth chart.

I’m not alone in feeling like that, either. In fact, astrological compatibility has become such a thing that the dating app Bumble added a feature for users to include their sign in their profiles. Bumble’s sociologist Jess Carbino, PhD, says this trend has to do with young people choosing to identify less with religion and more with spirituality and astrology. So, it makes sense that we’d be interested in dating for compatibility, according to the universe’s POV.

In my case, I learned more about my partner’s birth chart, and it brought a lot more clarity regarding the harmony in our relationship. For one, his Venus and Mars signs—which determine our romantic tendencies and passion, respectively—are in Leo (mine are in Aquarius), and according to astrology, this is a recipe for harmony.

“It’s important not to jump to conclusions when learning a few aspects of someone’s astrology.”—Angel Dawn, astrologer

And so it is: even if your sun signs are deemed incompatible, hope isn’t lost. “It’s important not to jump to conclusions when learning a few aspects of someone’s astrology,” astrologer Angel Dawn explains. Namely, planets like Venus, Mars, and points like lunar nodes are significant indicators of a cosmically aligned relationship.

Here’s what to know if you and your date aren’t technically zodiac-compatible.

Can incompatible signs be together?

So, what if zodiac signs are incompatible? Are two people really doomed if they aren’t compatible astrologically? Dawn says no, thankfully—so there’s no need to swear off certain zodiac signs. That’s because, per Dawn, “sun signs, moon signs, and the rising sign all need to be taken into consideration and even then, they can only be considered very general compatibility indicators.”

“Sun signs, moon signs and the rising sign all need to be taken into consideration and even then, they can only be considered very general compatibility indicators.”—Angel Dawn

Whether a relationship will work depends on more than personality traits that you get along with, but emotional maturity, your passions, and relationship needs, too. Knowing the qualities of your planetary placements can help you better understand how you operate in the aforementioned different ways. That explains why incompatible signs can actually be together—because your birth chart is so much deeper than star signs alone.

If you want a thorough assessment of compatibility through astrology, though, Dawn suggests consulting a professional.

Which zodiac signs are most compatible?

When it comes to astrological love compatibility, astrologers look at a number of points in your chart. But generally, sun sign compatibility can be as simple as comparing astrological elements: fire, Earth, air, and water.

“Astrologers often say that the remedy for any sign’s neurosis is the enlightened qualities of the opposite sign,” McCarthy says. “Earth signs can provide balance, pragmatism, and groundedness to water signs, while water signs can provide fluidity, spirituality, and emotional depth to Earth signs. Air signs can fuel fire signs with brilliant ideas and intellectual stimulation, while fire signs help bring air signs’ mental energy into action.”

She explains that traditionally, water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces) and Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn) go together because of their complementary astrological elements, with water nourishing Earth. To this same effect, air signs (Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius) and fire signs (Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius) go together because air feeds fire. “Also, signs that are in the same element (Earth, water, air, or fire) form the most harmonious angles to each other, called ‘trines,’ which are 120 degrees apart,” she explains.

Which zodiac signs are the least compatible?

McCarthy says opposing signs on the chart don’t necessarily spell out incompatibility—but this situation doesn’t always make for the smoothest relationship. That said, “in terms of least compatible signs, fire scorches Earth, and Earth and air have trouble blending,” she says.

But keep in mind that these pieces of intel are only paying attention to your sun sign, which is hardly the only aspect of your zodiac profile worth noting. Opposites work if other parts of your zodiac chart flow. “For example, if your suns are opposite but your moons flow, this could be a very good match,” she says.

Which zodiac signs are soulmates?

Discerning soul mate compatibility, or rather, “highly compatible individuals that may have a long-term relationship,” as Dawn says, involves a more in-depth analysis of two people’s birth charts. Per Dawn, soul mate matches, are analyzed through synastry charts, “where two charts are overlaid next to each other in a bi-wheel and with a composite chart where the energies of two natal charts of the individuals are blended to create the ultimate meaning and destiny of the relationship.”

That said, Dawn says strong partnerships are when planets are positively activating the other’s south and north nodes, which discern our past karma and our destiny because, as Dawn puts it, these points represent the soul lessons and karma between two people. Another way to discern soul mate energy? “When each other’s personal planets (sun, moon Venus, Mars) fall in each other’s 7th house of marriage and partnership creates the feeling that the other is a natural complement to themselves,” Dawn adds.

The most and least compatible zodiac signs

Aries

The signs most compatible with Aries: Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius

Ambitious, strong-willed, and, at times, short-tempered, if there’s anyone who can relate to and appreciate Aries’ fiery traits, it’s Leo. Equally courageous and confident in their convictions, “they are the best to handle Aries,” Emily Newman, an astrologer at The Best of Psychic Reader, previously told Well+Good.

Aries compatibility makes them well-suited air signs Gemini and Libra, as they can help balance out the ram’s brash nature. Aries people have an affinity for individuals who exude charisma and think outside the box, says Newman, which are qualities that come naturally to Gemini. Libra values balance and harmony in all aspects of life, and they can bring calm to Aries and offset their innate intensity, she adds.

Fellow fire sign Sagittarius also makes for a strong match for Aries, according to Dawn, because they share a lust for adventure and Aries can relate to being energized and curious about the world. Plus, Sagittarius’ optimism compliments the dynamism of Aries, says Dawn. “Both are fire elements that will be stimulated in seeking out exciting experiences together,” Dawn adds.

The signs least compatible with Aries: Aries, Taurus, Cancer, Capricorn

Fire signs won’t always get along when they come together, Newman told Well+Good, pointing to two Aries as an example. “Both want to be able to think and conduct things in the way they desire,” she says, resulting in a partnership involving two competitors rather than a unified team.

Taurus is likely to butt heads with Aries as well, she says, as the bull is more conventional in its way of thinking and prefers to play it safe, whereas Aries values spontaneity and taking risks. Getting along with Cancer might also be difficult for Aries, astrologer Alexandria Lettman previously told Well+Good. Being an emotional and sensitive water sign, Cancer might find Aries’ blunt honesty off-putting, she says.

Capricorn’s cautiousness contradicts Aries’ spontaneity. While both signs are ambitious in their respective ways Capricorn is just too calculated and decisive, whereas Aries is a live-in-the-moment type of go-getter. “Their approaches can be radically different which will make it challenging to see eye-to-eye,” explains Dawn.

Taurus

The signs most compatible with Taurus: Cancer, Virgo, Pisces, Capricorn

Key among Taurus’ traits are their practical, steady, reliable, and slow-moving nature—and it is these qualities that make Taurus compatible with Virgo, according to Newman in an interview with Well+Good. “Both Taurus and Virgo are Earth signs and both place a value on stability and security,” she says. “This makes it easy for them to understand each other.”

Water signs Cancer and Pisces are also compatible with the bull, she adds. Being the homebody of the zodiac, Cancer likewise seeks a loyal and steadfast partner. Pisces and Taurus compatibility can also lead to a lasting bond. Not only will they get along well due to similar interests, she says, but they will also “prioritize their love over anything else.”

Capricorn is an Earth sign, like Taurus, so they can deeply understand each other’s approach to life. “Both signs are very much driven by strong material foundations, stability, and enduring relations which makes for highly compatible mates,” says Dawn.

The signs least compatible with Taurus: Aries, Aquarius, Sagittarius, Leo

Conversely, fire signs Aries and Sagittarius aren’t typically compatible with Taurus. Aries might be too fast-moving for slow and steady Taurus, and since they are similarly headstrong, they can be set in their ways, giving rise to friction and resistance.

Freedom-loving Sagittarius will also clash with Taurus in terms of lifestyle, says Newman. “Sagittarius enjoys adventure and discovering new things, whereas Taurus prefers to stay at home and enjoy the comforts of life,” she says. She adds that airy Aquarius is also considered an incompatible match for Taurus. Like Sagittarius, Aquarius values independence and freedom, and the combo might struggle to find common ground.

For Leo, who’s all about chasing thrills, joy, and excitement, Taurus may find their exhilarating energy to be off-putting and a bit intimidating (okay, very intimidating). Taurus requires stability in their relationships, “which can clash with the more exuberant, expressive needs of the lion,” Dawn explains. For that reason, Leo may feel bored and restricted by Taurus’ reclusive and indulgent nature.

Gemini

The signs most compatible with Gemini: Aries, Libra, Aquarius, Leo

Gemini is represented by the twins, and as their celestial symbol implies, one of Gemini’s defining traits is their duality. On one hand, Gemini can be outgoing social butterflies, and on the other, they can be introverted and keep to themselves. Gemini’s multifaceted personality makes them compatible with fire sign Aries, who, as mentioned earlier, have a natural affinity for Gemini.

What’s more, “Both are quite compatible, much like best friends, and both are also sexually, emotionally, and intellectually compatible,” Newman told Well+Good. Fellow air signs Libra and Aquarius are also compatible with Gemini, as they share the twin sign’s openness to spontaneity and new adventures, she says.

The bold and mighty Leo is also a strong match for Gemini, who craves stimulation and inspiration in the mundane. “The lion provides the passion, effervescent creativity, and spark that energizes the more cerebral Geminis while the latter provides the intellectual stimulation and varied excitement that lights up the lion,” Dawn adds.

The signs least compatible with Gemini: Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces

Gemini’s love of spontaneity and new adventure might not bode well with Taurus, who is set in their ways and won’t move without much provocation. The bull can also be sensitive, and they may not take Gemini’s honesty lightly. Likewise, water signs Cancer and Scorpio are emotional, and often too much so for lighthearted Gemini.

Plus, “Gemini prefers to be an extrovert and needs a spouse who will take them out to enjoy new experiences, while Cancer, on the other hand, prefers a companion willing to stay at home,” says Newman. As for Scorpio, “Both are unable to comprehend one another, as Scorpios are ambitious workaholics, and maybe a little dramatic, and they want to go deep, while Geminis on the other hand, enjoy shallow,” she says.

As far as water sign Pisces, they are likely to be amiss with Gemini’s logical and rational nature, explains Dawn. Pisces and Gemini can relate to being big dreamers and thinkers, but “they can have trouble understanding each other, particularly in the mental and emotional sphere,” Dawn says.

Cancer

The signs most compatible with Cancer: Taurus, Scorpio, Pisces, Virgo

Cancer is not only caring and compassionate but also “deeply committed to their family and friends,” Newman told Well+Good. As mentioned earlier, it’s these qualities that make them compatible with Taurus, who also values loyalty and commitment. Fellow water signs Scorpio and Pisces are also compatible with Cancer, as they can relate to the crab’s emotional depths.

Scorpio shares many of Cancer’s traits. “They are both innately sensitive and both help each other to nurture,” says Newman. Similarly, “Pisces and Cancer are both sensitive,” she says, adding that while Pisces is more calm and easygoing than temperamental Cancer, “they balance and complement each other’s characteristics and have a strong bond.”

Where Virgo is concerned, Cancer can feel at peace knowing the altruistic Earth sign is willing to preserve and protect the sensitive sign’s deep fears and passions. “The deep practicality, thoughtfulness, and diligence a Virgo demonstrates is highly comforting to a security-oriented Cancer,” Dawn says. Cancer is also happy to tend to Virgo’s needs as a sign that also shares a responsibility to care for others around them.

The signs least compatible with Cancer: Aries, Gemini, Aquarius, Libra

Conversely, Cancer is typically incompatible with Aries, as they have opposing emotional approaches and views on life. According to Newman, Aries might deem Cancer as too sensitive, whereas Cancer might be put off by Aries’ straightforward nature. What’s more, “Cancer does not like Aries’ daring and overly rational behavior,” she says. In addition, Gemini and Aquarius won’t always get along with Cancer.

Gemini, like Aries, may not appreciate the crab’s sensitive side, says Newman, whereas Gemini’s spontaneous nature may not bode well with the homebody crab. Friction can also arise between Cancer and Aquarius, as “Cancer is more overly emotional, whereas Aquarius is more analytical in decision-making,” says Newman.

Flirtatious and cerebral Libra could be a weak match for Cancer, according to Dawn. “The emotionally oriented Cancer contrasts heavily with the cool, impartial air sign, Libra,” says Dawn. “This contradiction can be unfulfilling to the more intuitive, feelings-based crab.” Cooperation and compromise are key, which Libra is happy to oblige to, but Cancer may feel apprehensive since they’re extremely protective of their heart.

Leo

The signs most compatible with Leo: Aries, Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius

Magnetic and charismatic, Leo’s key traits make them one of, if not the boldest signs of the zodiac—and fellow fire sign Aries cannot resist the celestial lion’s allure. As mentioned earlier, Aries can match Leo’s fiery energy, and when together, they can make each other shine.

Gemini and Libra are also compatible with Leo, as they can fuel Leo’s fire. “Gemini is an air sign, which means they never compete with a Leo partner, and instead, assist them in achieving their success,” Newman told Well+Good. What’s more, “both are pleasant and welcoming personalities.” Libra can offer Leo the love and support Leo seeks in a relationship, says Newman, adding that they can also make them excellent friends, thanks to their “commonalities and variances in personality.”

Sagittarius’ generosity and larger-than-life attitude closely align with Leo’s whole vibe, which is why they’re a great match for each other. “Both create a reservoir of goodwill, optimism, and luck in their relationship,” Dawn says. These similarities of expression and values can create a meaningful relationship, so long as they don’t try to one-up each other!

The signs least compatible with Leo: Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn, Scorpio

Although Leo and Cancer are both loving, loyal, and commitment-oriented, their differences can cause friction in their relationship. For one, Leo is sensible and enjoys trying new things, says Newman, whereas Cancer is an emotional homebody who is conventional in thinking and in matters of relationships.

Earth signs Virgo and Capricorn may also struggle to get along with Leo. Forward-thinking Virgo is analytical, which may clash with Leo’s proclivity to live in the current moment, Newman says, adding that “Virgo is highly intellectual, and it may be too much for Leo, who might view them as competitors.” Leo may also experience power struggles with Capricorn, she says, and since they are both stubborn by nature, it might be difficult for the two to compromise.

Water sign Scorpio tends to be withholding in terms of what they’re thinking and feeling, which contradicts Leo’s openness and flamboyant nature. Because of this, this match tends to be incompatible. Leo is all about grand gestures in relationships, says Dawn, “while the other is about what is less obvious, but deeply felt.”

Virgo

The signs most compatible with Virgo: Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn

Virgo is the perfectionist of the zodiac. Well-organized with a keen eye for detail, fellow Earth sign Taurus can appreciate Virgo’s key traits, as Taurus also has a practical approach to life and shares Virgo’s desire to work through things slowly but steadily. Virgo is also compatible with water signs Cancer and Scorpio.

Cancer and Virgo are inherently nurturing, and they can offer one another security and stability in a relationship. Virgo and Scorpio will also find plenty of common ground. “Both signs are clever and intelligent, and they like to be well-planned,” Newman told Well+Good, and if they choose to commit to one another, it’s likely they could become a true power couple.

Capricorns can build a strong relationship with Virgo, as they share a practical mindset and desire stability, which Capricorns are more than willing to give to their fellow Earth sign. “And likewise the sea-goat will appreciate the methodical and refined nature of Virgoans which complements their own responsible nature,” says Dawn. For that reason, these two may thrive in different types of relationships, platonic, romantic, and even professional.

The signs least compatible with Virgo: Leo, Sagittarius, Aquarius, Aries

As mentioned earlier, Virgo and fiery Leo might clash when they come together—and if they can’t learn how to compromise, they will end up working against each other rather than as a team. In addition, Virgo may struggle to find common ground with free-flowing Sagittarius. “Sagittarius may become frustrated by Virgo’s need for perfection, while Virgo believes Sagittarius may be negligent and careless in their management of things,” Newman told Well+Good.

Airy Aquarius who favors spontaneity over meticulous planning may also clash with Virgo. The two are also more logical than they are emotional, and with this in mind, “they will not be particularly romantic,” says Newman.

Also ranking on the incompatibility scale is Aries, who tend to be too impulsive and overly optimistic for Virgo. Virgos are thorough and cautious, which according to Dawn, clashes with the boldness of Aries. “Both have a fundamentally different approach and style that will seem to contradict each other,” she says.

Libra

The signs most compatible with Libra: Leo, Gemini, Aquarius, Sagittarius

Libra values balance and harmony—a key Libra trait that has earned them the reputation of being the “peacemakers” of the zodiac. They can get along well with almost anybody, but there are some zodiac signs that Libras are most compatible with—and Leo is one of them. As mentioned, Libra will fuel Leo’s fire, while Leo will bring excitement to Libra’s life.

Gemini and Aquarius can also relate to and appreciate Libra. Chatty and quick-witted Gemini shares Libra’s charm and love of new experiences. Aquarius and Libra are the perfect combination on an intuitive and intellectual level, according to Newman. “Libra admires the out-of-the-box ideas of Aquarius and values freedom, which Aquarius loves in return,” she says.

Sagittarius is a passionate sign that seeks understanding and truth in all of their endeavors, which is magnetic to diplomatic Libra. “Libras seek harmony, balance, and beauty within their personal interactions and this combines well with the high-mindedness and idealism of a Sagittarius,” says Dawn.

The signs least compatible with Libra: Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces

Water signs Cancer and Scorpio may struggle to find commonality with Libra. Cancer and Scorpio are emotional and sensitive, which at times, may be too much for Libra, who approaches things objectively, rather than sentimentally.

Capricorn may also be an incompatible match for the sign of the scales. “[Libra] and Capricorn are different in almost every way,” according to Lettman in a previous interview with Well+Good. “[Libras] choose diplomacy while they choose authority; [Libras] seek cooperation and harmony while they are incredibly self-reliant. However, “both are very strong within [their] beliefs of what is ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ and are seeking respect from others.”

Pisces is also among the least compatible matches for Libra. Despite Libra and Pisces sharing an affinity for the arts, Dawn says that’s just not enough for these two to last long-term because Libra favors the mind while, “Pisces nature is inherently more attuned toward the abstract and the subconscious which causes a mental and emotional disconnect.”

Scorpio

The signs most compatible with Scorpio: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Pisces

Once you break through to Scorpio, you’ll find that they are deeply passionate, loyal, and protective of those they love—and if there’s a zodiac sign that can appreciate these key Scorpio traits, it’s Taurus. As mentioned, Taurus values security and stability, and Scorpio places similar importance in their relationships. What’s more, “Taurus may provide a calming influence [for Scorpio], while Scorpio can assist Taurus in spiritual growth,” Newman told Well+Good.

Fellow water sign Cancer can also understand and relate to Scorpio on a deep level, as they are innately emotional and intuitive. Virgo is another sign that is compatible with Scorpio, thanks to their similarities. “Both signs are bright and intellectual and enjoy a well-structured life,” says Newman.

Pisces ranks among the most compatible matches with Scorpio as they also share a water element, but it’s much deeper than that (no pun intended). Per Dawn, “These two water signs are highly sensitive and more empathetic in tuning into emotional undercurrents within the relationship and within each other.” They can depend on each other for safety and diplomacy as they both share values and how they expend their respective energies.

The signs least compatible with Scorpio: Gemini, Leo, Libra, Aquarius

Conversely, Scorpio and Gemini may make an incompatible match. As mentioned, Scorpio requires safety and security to fully open up, and Gemini and Libra, may not provide the consistency that Scorpio seeks in a partner due to their airy nature.

What’s more, the air signs may find Scorpio to be too emotional or sensitive. Scorpio and Leo may also experience power struggles in their relationship, as they are both stubborn and set in their ways, says Newman. As a result, “both will be unable to comprehend one another, as they tend to believe they are correct in their thinking and actions and haven’t done harm, and are generally resistant towards accepting the views of others.”

Aquarius tends to be unemotional and may be too cerebral for emotionally driven Scorpio, who craves intimacy. Plus, “they both have a very fixed, stubborn nature that can hinder compromise and easy conflict resolution,” explains Dawn. These conflicts can stir resentment as these two struggle to not only meet in the middle but understand how the other works.

Sagittarius

The signs most compatible with Sagittarius: Aries, Leo, Libra, Aquarius

Sagittarius is known for their love of adventure and exploration, often seeking thrills in search of knowledge, understanding, and truth. Aries and Leo can understand and appreciate Sagittarius’ traits, as they intrinsically understand and can match the archer’s fiery passion and spontaneous nature.

Libra is compatible with Sagittarius, too. Elementally speaking, Libra and Sagittarius can complement one another. “They’re each other’s biggest cheerleaders and enjoy seeing the other achieve great things,” Newman told Well+Good. They are also similar zodiac signs in that they have a zest for life, and they thrive on new experiences and social connections.

Sagittarius will never get bored with eccentric and out-of-the-box thinker Aquarius. Likewise, Aquarius is drawn to Sagittarius’ hunger for knowledge and independence. “Both signs value freedom of spirit, body and mind, creating an egalitarian partnership that promotes friendliness, honesty and a more expansive outlook on life,” Dawn explains.

The signs least compatible with Sagittarius: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Pisces

Not everyone will appreciate Sagittarius’ freedom-loving nature, including Earth signs Taurus and Virgo, who are practical by nature and prefer to take things step-by-steady-step. “Sagittarius is adventurous, unexpected, and impulsive, whereas Taurus is slow, calm, and stable,” Newman told Well+Good. As mentioned earlier, Virgo might be put off by Sagittarius’ easygoing spontaneity, while Sagittarius may not understand Virgo’s analytical and forward-thinking behavior.

Cancer may also not understand Sagittarius’ personality. According to Newman, “they dislike Sagittarius’ gregarious and adventurous character and instead value family most, and so they frequently expect their spouse to spend time with them.”

Despite Sagittarius sharing a planetary ruler with Pisces (Pisces is ruled by Jupiter in traditional astrology, BTW), these two could not be more different. “Sagittarius will seek out adventure and have a more direct manner and style while the personal expression of a Pisces is more indirect and subtle,” explains Dawn, and for that reason, they’re better off being cordial than involved romantically.

Capricorn

The signs most compatible with Capricorn: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio

Self-motivated, ambitious, and hardworking are a few of Capricorn’s key traits—and some of these qualities are shared, or if not, appreciated by fellow Earth signs Taurus and Virgo, which is why they are typically compatible with Capricorn. According to Newman, Taurus is one of Capricorn’s finest soulmates. Taurus is “reliable and faithful,” she told Well+Good, which is typically what Cap seeks in a partner.

As for Virgo? “Both zodiac signs are wise, and for each other, they are both dependable and trustworthy,” she says. In addition, Cancer can make an ideal partner for Capricorn. Newman says that Cancer can offer comfort and care to a Capricorn, while Capricorns can offer Cancer stability and security—which are all the makings of a healthy relationship.

Even though Scorpio is highly emotional and intuitive, Capricorn is drawn to their powerful and dominant energy. Plus, “The dedication and laser-focused passion of the scorpion merges well with the Sea-goats reputation for loyalty, tenacity, and responsibility to self and others,” Dawn says.

The signs least compatible with Capricorn: Aries, Leo, Gemini, Libra

Conversely, fire signs Aries and Leo won’t always make a compatible zodiac match for the sea-goat. Aries won’t typically have much in common with Capricorn, as they can be “obstinate, hasty, and rash,” says Newman, “whereas Capricorn is calm and collected.”

As for a Capricorn and Leo pairing? “They are continually in competition with one another, and there aren’t similarities between the two, as in the case between Aries,” she says. Gemini might also be a mismatch for Capricorn as they have opposing approaches to love and life. Newman explains: “Capricorn prefers the conventional approach to love, while Gemini enjoys new experiences, meeting new people and seeking adventures.”

Libra’s social battery and carefree attitude can be draining for Capricorn. “Although both appreciate the finer things in life, Libra’s airy intellect and harmonizing nature can be potentially frustrating to the singular focus of a Capricorn,” explains Dawn. For that reason, a Capricorn-Libra relationship is often riddled with strife and a push-and-pull of compromise.

Aquarius

The signs most compatible with Aquarius: Aries, Gemini, Sagittarius, Libra

The unique snowflakes of the zodiac wheel Aquarius’ traits often include their outside-of-the-box thinking and independent nature. It’s why fellow air sign Gemini is typically compatible with Aquarius, as the twin sign can match the water bearer’s communication style and respect their need for independence and individuality.

Fire signs Aries and Sagittarius can also make an interesting match for Aquarius. Newman told Well+Good that Aries and Aquarius will have much in common in terms of how they connect and view relationships, as they are similarly honest and upfront. Sagittarius and Aquarius are also similar zodiac signs in that they are free-spirited and value autonomy.

Libra and Aquarius share an air element, so right off the bat, they can relate to each other’s needs for social interaction and a cerebral nature. “A harmonious relationship based on friendship and balancing individual differences can make for an easy harmony,” Dawn explains. Because of their similarities, Libra and Aquarius make a powerful match.

The signs least compatible with Aquarius: Cancer, Virgo, Pisces, Taurus

Conversely, Cancer and Virgo are typically among the least compatible zodiac signs for Aquarius. The water signs are known to be highly emotional and sensitive, which is the exact opposite of Aquarius, who is analytical and rational in most aspects of life. With this in mind, Aquarius might find the water signs to be too overbearing.

Aquarius might also struggle to find commonality with Virgo. Plus, Virgo has a tendency to be hard on their partners. According to Newman, their tendency to be hypercritical may not sit well with Aquarius, even if it often comes from a well-meaning place. Aquarius might view it as judgmental and unaccepting, and even more so if the water bearer hasn’t emotionally opened up to their partner yet.

Taurus tends to be too practical and introverted for Aquarius’ taste, especially because Aquarius is unconventional and is an abstract thinker. Plus, Taurus loves quality time at home, which can feel stifling for Aquarius, who needs solitude from time to time in order to be successful in a relationship. “Aquarians can be preoccupied with social and intellectual concerns while the security-seeking Taurus tend to be more grounded in material reality,” Dawn says.

Pisces

The signs most compatible with Pisces: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio

Empathetic and sensitive to those emotions of their loved ones, and sometimes to a fault, fellow water sign Cancer can make an ideal zodiac match for Pisces. Cancer intrinsically understands and relates to Pisces’ traits. “Cancer, like Pisces, is a water sign, so a relationship can result in excellent communication and peace,” Newman previously told Well+Good.

Taurus and Virgo are also compatible with Pisces, as they can provide grounding energy for the fish. Plus, Taurus is “thoughtful, sensual, and passionate,” says Newman, which are qualities that Pisces seeks in a partner. Virgo can keep dreamy Pisces grounded, while Pisces can provide Virgo with love and attention. “When they combine their strengths, they balance each other out,” she says.

Pisces can feel safe with Scorpio’s protectiveness and emotional side. Scorpio can also support Pisces’ big dreams and hopes as they also tend to be extremely passionate and driven, too. As Dawn explains: “Both signs can merge into the deep watery abyss of feelings, passion, and tenderness with Scorpio’s depth perfectly complementing the imaginative, sensitive Pisces.”

The signs least compatible with Pisces: Aries, Gemini, Aquarius, Leo

Aries can make a tough match for Pisces, according to Newman. “Aries people are reckless and do not ponder before acting, and as a result, they may repeatedly and negligently harm Pisces’ feelings,” she says. Typically, Pisces is also incompatible with air signs Gemini and Aquarius. [Pisces is] creative and slow-paced, and it can be irritating for [them] to try to connect with a Gemini as they’re energetic and quick by nature.

It’s difficult for [Pisces] to communicate with and understand or be understood by Gemini.” Lettman told Well+Good. “Aquarius would struggle to deal with Pisces’ emotional side,” says Newman. In addition, “Aquarius likes to be free and gregarious, and Pisces is more grounded and patient, so both partners may be unable to comprehend each other.”

Leo may be too aggressive and exuberant for Pisces, who is known to be comfortable with their own solitude and idealism. “Leos are fundamentally about the celebration of individuality through creativity and self-expression. This tends to clash with the more selfless, subconscious motivations of the sensitive Pisces,” explains Dawn.