Demi Lovato’s New Wand Vibrator Proves Small Can Be Mighty

Wand vibrators are likely the most ubiquitous type of pleasure product on the market, and they tend to be as discreet as a ball gown (read: they generally couldn’t be more conspicuous). Typically 12-plus inches long, the microphone-shaped massagers are ideal for pleasuring your hard-to-reach bits. But, you’re not alone if their bulk has kept you from investing. Here to solve for the common complaint that wand vibrators are “too big,” though, is sexual pleasure shop Bellesa Boutique. The platform recently collaborated with singer, songwriter, and actor Demi Lovato to create a wand vibrator that’s pocket-sized: The Demi Wand, $89.

At 5 inches long and 1.5 inches wide at its most-bulbous part, the Demi Wand is about the size of a cake pop—far smaller than iconic wand vibrators like the Hitachi Magic Wand.

Like other wand vibrators, though, this celeb-backed cutie can be used nearly anywhere on the body, including on nipples, the clitoris, penis, or G-spot. The single exception? Since the Demi Wand vibrator does not have a flared base, it can’t be used for anal penetration play. (FWIW: The wand is safe to use for external peach play).

Demi Wand — $89.00

The Demi Wand may not sport a long handle, but it’s easy-to-grip four-inch stem still lets you get creative with how you choose to self-pleasure. Plus, with a whopping eight vibrational settings, there’s no shortage of ways to play and get laid with this toy.

Adding to the Demi Wand’s discreet ethos, is its carrier. Shaped like a sunglasses case, its hardcover protector functions like that of an AirPods case. When you’re done enjoying the toy (and have properly cleaned it with warm water and soap), plop it in this nifty case where it gets re-charged.

Curious what this vibe is like in action? I won’t make you ask twice.

Here’s what happened when I tried the new Demi Lovato vibrator, the Demi Wand

A great many vibrators available right now only come in pink or purple shades. Some pleasure-seekers love getting off with toys in these hues, but I am not one of them. So, when this nearly-neon yellow toy showed up at my door, it already had a leg up on competition. (It’s also available in tan).

When it came time to put the new Demi Lovato vibrator to the test, I wish I could report that I decked out my room with candles and touched myself to the tune of her own “Confident” or cued up a feminist porn video from Bellesa Boutique’s sister site, Bellesa. But, I didn’t. Instead, I casually and unceremoniously reached for the Demi Wand one morning when I just so happened to wake up before my alarm and my puppy.

This vibe proved quiet enough that my very jumpy dog stayed snoozing at the foot of my bed all orgasm long.

Immediately, I was impressed by how quiet the vibe is. Indeed, this toy markets itself as ‘whisper quiet’, but a lot of vibrators your roommates might be able to hear through the walls also do. This vibe, however, proved quiet enough that my very jumpy dog stayed snoozing at the foot of my bed all orgasm long.

The second time I used the Demi Wand was in shower. (Yep, this pocketful of sunshine vibe is fully waterproof). It was under the steamy stream that I finally got to explore the full range of the toy’s capabilities. On land, the first setting was more than enough to (ahem) wake me up (my bits are on the very sensitive side). But since water dulls the intensity of the vibration, as things got wetter and wilder during my shower session, I ramped up the wand’s intensity. While fiddling to find a speed that worked for me, I found myself grateful that I didn’t need to tap through pattern vibration settings. As a person who has never (not once!) gotten off from a pattern vibration option, I’m thrilled the toy is rid of the needless feature.

So, Demi Wand, I remain impressed, both by your virtual silence and strong intensity you deliver, given your smaller-than-normal motor. Ultimately, I’d highly recommend it for first-time vibrator owners, folks looking for a quiet option that is roommate-approved, and anyone (like me) who’s sick of pink pleasure products.

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