What Your Zodiac Sign Says About Your Love Language, According to Astrologers

So, you’re dating someone new and you sneakily ask for their date of birth, place of birth, and birth time before sneaking off to the bathroom to calculate their birth chart and gauge your compatibility. If you’re the type of person to check your cosmic compatibility with someone, you may also be wondering how your zodiac love languages align. With the help of a few experts, we determined which zodiac love languages are most compatible and what that might mean for the future of your romantic relationships.

ICYMI, the five love languages are categories of affection that help us describe how we need our love expressed. In 1992, author Gary Chapman named the five types of expressions—words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service, and receiving gifts—in his book, The Five Love Languages. Most of us appreciate all languages but may lean towards one the most. So, what does astrology have to do with love languages? Your Big 3 (rising, moon, and sun) gives a blueprint of your personality. The sun sign, or your zodiac sign, specifically, represents your sense of self, identity, ego, and self-expression and can help predict your love language.

Why are love languages important? Well, research shows¹ that knowing your partner’s love language and vice versa may lead to a healthier, stronger relationship. Once you know what the other needs, your individual satisfaction increases and so does the quality of your connection. So, ready to know what your zodiac love language says about you? Read ahead to see what experts had to say about the zodiac signs and their potential love connections.

Which zodiac signs love to be touched?

Everyone needs physical touch, no matter their zodiac sign. However, according to psychological astrologer Dr. Jennifer Freed, PhD, the signs that need physical touch the most are the earth signs: Virgo, Capricorn, and Taurus. Why? Well, earth signs need sensuality, says Dr. Freed. This means they crave physical touch and need lots of affection like hugs, kisses, and time in the bedroom. Astrologer Indigo Selah says two other signs—Leo and Cancer—also love to be touched. “Cancers are nurturing and enjoy physical closeness so much [that] they get offended if you’re not touching them,” she says. “Leos appreciate physical displays of affection and enjoy being pampered. Leo wants to feel like you can’t be without them.”

Which zodiac signs love kissing?

All signs like kissing, says Dr. Freed. “Certain signs will love foreplay more than others; for example, the fire signs of Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius may grow impatient with simply kissing and want to get the action going,” she says. “Libra may enjoy responding to the lover’s wish for extended kissing. Scorpios may enjoy probing all the intensity the kissing can provide.” Selah agrees, saying Aries, Taurus, and Libra are the three signs that love to be kissed. “Aries are passionate and enjoy spontaneous loud displays of affection,” she explains. Taurus, as an earth sign, desires sensual experiences like kissing. As for Libras, they prefer “romantic gestures including kissing and physical displays of affection,” Selah adds.

“Certain signs will love foreplay more than others; for example, the fire signs of Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius may grow impatient with simply kissing and want to get the action going.” —Dr. Jennifer Freed, PhD

Ahead, Selah and Dr. Freed dive deeper into each zodiac sign’s love languages.

What is Aries’s love language?

Aries are ruled by Mars, the planet of war. Passion, touch, and energy are all associated with Mars and thus Aries. This means Aries likes acts of service and physical touch, says Selah. “They appreciate partners who take action to support them and who are physically affectionate and spontaneous in their displays of love,” she explains. They want passion fire and excitement. Think of things like rock climbing dates (Aries love adventure!) or weekend getaways. Bonus points if it’s a surprise vacation!

They also enjoy the chase, Selah adds. While they’re not commitment-phobes per se, they need the passion and boldness to keep the spark going. For that reason, Aries is compatible with the air signs—Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius, says Dr. Freed. Air signs are complementary to fire signs because of their astrological elements (e.g. air fanning the flames of fire). Air signs can stimulate Aries’s need for passion and excitement by being calm and peaceful, which makes Aries feel special and seen.

What is Taurus’s love language?

“Taurus is ruled by Venus and likes smooth, dependable demonstrations of affection,” says Dr. Freed. Taurus is an earth sign and we know earth signs love physical touch like kissing, hugs, and hand-holding. However, they also like acts of service and quality time, too! “They appreciate tactile expressions of affection, spending quality time together, and practical gestures that show care and thoughtfulness,” Selah says. “Taurus loves receiving and gifting gifts that are thoughtful to their lover’s niche interests and unique qualities.” This earth sign is compatible with its sister signs—Virgo and Capricorn—as well as water signs like Cancer. Virgo, Capricorn, and Cancers are all loyal and dependable signs that align with Taurus’s need for stability and groundedness.

What is Gemini’s love language?

The air sign of all air signs. Geminis love “communication and intellectual stimulation,” says Selah. They’re yappers! That means they love words of affirmation—not just any words, but “a courtship of meaningful dialogue and affectionate statements,” says Dr. Freed. Any love declaration will get this sign going. So will endless compliments, praises, and questions. “Geminis are the busybodies of the zodiac and mainly show their love by purposely pushing your buttons and asking you a million questions,” Selah adds. “They want to get inside your mind.”

Because they’re represented by the celestial twins, Castor and Pollux, Geminis have a lot of duality in them. They’re flexible social butterflies with many passions, interests, and hobbies. This makes them compatible with many air and fire signs like Libra, Aquarius, and Aries because they can match Gemini’s need for stimulating conversations and wit.

What is Cancer’s love language?

Emotional, sentimental, and loyal are just a few adjectives to describe this water sign. They need to feel emotionally safe in platonic and romantic relationships, says Dr. Freed. So, they love acts of service and quality time—anything that can give them the emotional intimacy they crave. “They appreciate partners who show care through practical actions, spend meaningful time together, and create a secure emotional bond,” Selah says. “Cancer will offer to give give give when they want to express their love. But only when they fully trust you.” Cancers best match with earth signs (Taurus) and other water signs like Scorpio and Pisces.

What is Leo’s love language?

The Main Character of the Zodiac. Leos love love love compliments, praises, and attention. They want to feel special and loved by their partners through both words and actions. “They enjoy compliments and verbal expressions of love, physical affection that shows admiration, and dramatic displays of romance,” Selah says. As for how they express their love, Leos are all about close-knit circles. You know you’re loved by a Leo if they offer you a seat in their found family. Leos are uber compatible with other fire signs—Aries and Sagittarius—because they can match their charismatic and fiery nature. The air signs, particularly Geminis, are also good partners for this lion. Leos will keep Geminis on their toes with their audacious personality while Geminis will keep Leos fed with the attention they need.

What is Virgo’s love language?

“Virgo loves to have detailed conversations and romantic creations of specific events to remember,” says Dr. Freed. Being ruled by the planet of communication aka Mercury makes them crave words of affirmation and a sense of purpose. They want their partners to uplift them and give them bouts of encouragement. Virgos are ruled by the sixth house of routine, so they’re super practical and task-oriented. Having a partner who willingly volunteers to help is every Virgo’s dream.

For that reason, this earth sign’s partner will always be a Capricorn. Capricorn, as a fellow earth sign, is dutiful, hard-working, and ambitious—all traits Virgos admire and love. Capricorns also have a nurturing and caring side that pairs well with Virgo’s high-handedness tendencies. Some other signs that match with Virgos are Taurus and Cancer.

What is Libra’s love language?

Libras are the hopeless romantics of the Zodiac. Their heart bleeds for grand gestures, well-curated presents, and quality time. This air sign doesn’t love halfway—once a Libra has given you their heart, they’re all the way in. Some may call them codependent, but really, they “just always want to be near you,” explains Selah. Loyalty and partnership mean the most to this sign. This is because they’re lovers deep down and can’t be in situationships or casual relationships without getting emotionally attached. Their bleeding heart makes the ideal partner for Leos, as they, too, are lovers deep down. However, Libras also value freedom and independence, so they can’t be paired with someone without their own dreams and goals.

What is Scorpio’s love language?

“Scorpio’s love language often revolves around physical touch, deep emotional connection, and trust,” Selah explains. “They appreciate partners who are physically affectionate, who share their deepest feelings, and who demonstrate loyalty and commitment.” The best way into a Scorpio’s heart is through their skin, whether that’s a roll through the sheets or a few hours sitting in their presence. You’ll never doubt if a Scorpio loves you. Loyalty is in their blood. “The Scorpio love language is devotion!” Selah adds. “They will soft launch their vulnerability to see how you react, this means they’re ready to take the connection even deeper.” Dr. Freed says the Scorpios work best with earth signs like Taurus and Capricorn. Earth signs can match Scorpio’s need for intimacy and passion.

What is Sagittarius’s love language?

Dr. Feed says that Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet of abundance, and likes adventure and knowledge. They rarely sit still because they’re always on the go. They value partners who can join them on their next exploration, wherever that might be. Sagittarius need freedom in relationships—but they’re not anti-monogamy. Rather, they need a lover who joins them on their travels and encourages their spontaneity. While they may come off as intense in the beginning, Sagittarius are huge jokesters! Selah says they express their love through jokes, laughs, and smiles. Their jet-setter nature makes them compatible with fire signs Aries and Leos who can match their fun and lighthearted personality. A Sag-on-Sag match is also good because both can respect each other’s need for independence and space.

What is Capricorn’s love language?

Capricorns don’t play—at all. They’re ruled by the planet of discipline, so they go by the book. Because of their intense and goal-driven mindset, they need a significant other who supports them. “They appreciate partners who support their goals, spend meaningful time together, and show their love through practical actions,” Selah says. A Capricorn needs a partner who’ll show up for them—who’ll do their dishes and household chores while they’re handling a project. Due to their one-track mind, Capricorns can be a bit too blunt and inconsiderate of their partner’s feelings. They need an SO who doesn’t wear their heart on their sleeves (sorry, Cancer). So, Capricorns are most compatible with Virgos who also understand practicality and ambition.

What is Aquarius’s love language?

It’s a running joke that Aquarians are freedom fighters, but it’s kind of true, no? I mean, they value social causes and are always willing to fight for what’s right. It’s how they express their love—through acts of change! They’re not the lovey-dovey type for sure. so don’t expect much physical affection or words of affirmation, but they’ll always show up for you.

Aquarians can also be standoff-ish but the best way to love them up is by building a solid friendship. Get to know them and what they care about. Show up for them (and their interests). That might look like canvassing the neighborhood because they’re super passionate about voting rights, or volunteering at a local soup kitchen because they rave about the right to food in conversations. An Aquarian’s activist and big-thinking mindset means they can’t get along with everyone. They need partners who’ll encourage their intellect and optimism. Geminis ~vibe~ with Aquarians because both value intellectually stimulating conversations. Aries is another great partner because this fire sign is creative and adventurous, two traits Aquarians love.

What is Pisces’s love language?

“Pisces’s love language often involves emotional intimacy, empathy, and creativity,” Selah explains. “They appreciate partners who understand their emotions and engage in imaginative and romantic gestures.” (They’re lovers!) The only language(s) Pisces understands are words of affirmation and acts of service. Like Cancers, Pisces wear their heart on their sleeve. They love deep and true. They don’t work with fire signs because their passionate and fiery nature might be too harsh for this water sign. They need gentle souls like a Cancer who can fulfill their emotional needs or a Capricorn who can nurture them while also keeping them on the right track. (Pisces can be too idealistic to a fault and get sidetracked easily, so having an accountability partner like a Capricorn is a must).

Which zodiac sign falls in love easily?

The two lover girls of the zodiac, Pisces and Libra, fall in love the easiest, says Selah. For Libras, they’re naturally hard-wired for monogamy. “They value relationships and are naturally inclined towards partnership and harmony, and will give almost anything up in the name of love,” she says. Pisces are the dreamers who fall hard and fast. “They are compassionate and often dreamy, easily swept away by romantic gestures and fantasies,” Selah adds. Really, all water signs fall headfirst into love, says Dr. Feed. “Falling in love is like throwing yourself under a waterfall, and therefore the merging water signs are most able to dive into those waters with abandon,” she says. However, the fire signs also get swept off their feet easily. The only difference, she adds, is that Sagittarius, Aries, and Leo will fall out of love just as quickly as they fell in.

Final thoughts on zodiac sign love languages

Whether you’re looking for love or already in it, remember zodiac love languages are just one aspect and never the whole picture. Our zodiac signs predict some of our behaviors and personalities but it’s never a full snapshot of who we are. (A 2021 study² even found there to be little to no links between personality and date of birth). So, while knowing your partner’s zodiac love language is helpful, the best way to love them is how they prefer to be loved. And that may not be the same love language as their zodiac. Keep that in mind the next time you wonder how you can show up for your SO.