25+ Sexy Gifts to Heat Things Up Well Beyond the Holiday Season
The holiday season has finally arrived, making it the perfect time to add a little extra sizzle to your celebrations. Whether you’re treating yourself, spicing things up with a partner, or bringing some cheeky joy to a friend, sexy gifts like toys, lingerie, and massage oils can be a delightful way to spread some holiday cheer. From tantalizing accessories to playful games, these sexual wellness add excitement and connection to cozy winter nights. Who doesn't want more of that?!
If you're ready to turn up the heat with a gift that will spark joy long past the holiday season, we’ve curated a list of over 25 unique presents guaranteed to thrill. These goodies aren't your average sexy stocking stuffers—there are luxurious massage candles, rumbly vibrators, and chic lingerie that feels as good as it looks. With options to suit every taste, you'll find the perfect gift for anyone on your list, each item designed to bring joy, intimacy, and a touch of adventure. So, get ready for those unwrapping moments that will have everyone saying "Ohhhhhh" with a capital O—these are the best sexy gifts that keep on giving (and giving and giving).
- 01Toy gifts
- 02Lingerie gifts
- 03Games and books
- 04Home goods
- 05Gift sets
- 06Gifts to get you in the mood
Le Wand Petite, $140
Lelo Enigma, $130
Crave Vesper Vibrator, $69
Satisfyer Pro 2 Modern Blossom, $40
Foria Awaken Arousal Oil, $40
Shop our sexy gift guide for a steamy holiday season
Best sex toys and accessory gifts
If you’re traveling for the holidays and don’t want to pack a wand the size of a small arm, this fun-size version of the brand’s original Le Wand is here to save the day. It may look petite, but with 10 intensity levels and six vibration patterns, it’s supremely powerful.
Part G-spot stimulator, part sonic wave clitoral stimulator, the Lelo Enigma is ready to pack double duty. This beautifully designed vibe features eight vibration intensities and soft, flexible silicone that feels amazing on skin. We’ve tried the Enigma ourselves and, while it might take a little getting used to (as the name suggests, there’s a lot going on), the end result is mind-blowing.
If you’re on the hunt for something more discreet, this slim vibrator looks just like a necklace when it’s not doing the job. All four speeds and two modes are also whisper-quiet while you use them (though you may not be!).
This waterproof vibrator is truly the definition of “look, no hands.” The Eva stays in place with wings that tuck under your labia so you can really stay in the moment while you play alone or with a partner. It has three intensity levels and comes in two cute colors.
Colors: 3
This luxe couples’ ring from Lelo is perfect for partnered play. It’s made from soft silicone and is completely waterproof (hello, shower sex!). It’s kind of pricey for a cock ring, but you can easily control the eight rumbly vibration settings from the companion app, and it comes with a swanky satin storage bag.
W+G contributing writer, Gabrielle Kassel, calls the Satisfyer Pro Modern Blossom the “gold medalist” of rose-shaped vibrators. It has 11 vibration settings, fluttery silicone petals for added sensation, and is completely waterproof.
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This coconut-based oil from natural intimacy brand Foria is designed to heighten arousal. The organic formula includes aphrodisiacs like vanilla and cacao, and the addition of peppermint and kava root offer a slight tingling sensation. Oh, and it smells divine. Just note that, because it’s oil based, it’s not suitable for use with latex condoms.
Lube makes an excellent stocking stuffer for your boo, like this water-based formula from Hello Cake. It uses organic aloe vera and other natural ingredients to slick things up for solo or partner play (it’s safe to use with latex condoms). Plus, it comes in a handy pump dispenser so you won’t kill the mood fumbling with packaging.
Best lingerie gifts
Reviewers tout this romper for being the softest, “most comfortable item to sleep in.” It’s the perfect mix of sexy and comfy, and features a lace trim for an elevated look.
This sheer bodysuit is super flattering and flirty. While the high-cut leg and a sassy thong back are seductive, the stretchy mesh actually makes this piece really comfortable (seriously, we’ve tried it ourselves!). It’s also rather affordable for lingerie, as are many of Blush’s other pieces.
Sister-owned San Fransisco brand Kim+Ono makes gorgeous, kimono-inspired robes. This particular design features beautiful peonies and butterflies, with a removable tie belt. It’s majorly sexy worn over lingerie (or nada), but we also think it’s too pretty not to pair with jeans and heels and take out on the town.
With six different colors to choose from, this demi underwire bra is sexy while still being supportive. The lace is elegant and features a subtle floral embroidery. Pair it with the matching thong for the full set.
With the deep v-cut, sensual lace, halter back, and sexy thong, you’d be hard-pressed to find a more perfect teddy. This Fleur du Mal bodysuit comes in three gorgeous colors and features a sweet satin bow, perfect for unwrapping.
These Nudus briefs read “luxury” thanks to the gold waistband. Made of a bamboo and spandex blend, these briefs are comfy, and breathable, and the sleek look will wow your partner when wearing them.
Sexy games and books
Nothing feels better than a massage, and the best ones come with a side of love and attraction. This book is the perfect intro guide to using breathwork in the bedroom, different massage oils and aromatherapy, and how to enjoy a sexy full-body massage either alone or with your partner.
Whether you’re just starting dating, FWBs, meeting at a bar, or married with kids, this card game is the perfect way to talk about fantasies, desires, and what you want in bed. It has provocative questions meant to really get you in the mood.
Made by sexpert Susie Bright, this box of 30 seductive prompts and dares is great to mix up your sex life with a bit of adventure. We especially love that each prompt is sealed in an envelope for an added touch of *drama*.
Learn about love, sex, sexuality, and hookup culture with this new book from intimacy and relationship expert, Lia Holmgren. The book features personal stories, advice, and tip and tricks for better communication when it comes to all things intimate.
Sexy home gifts
This unscented candle is made for massaging. The skin-softening jojoba oil melts as you light it, and it feels amazing on your skin whether you rub it on yourself or with the help of a partner (don’t worry, it doesn’t get to as high of a temp as a regular candle, so you won’t burn yourself!). If you’re not a fan of scents, Burn No. 0 is for you. If you do like a little fragrance to your massage, we recommend Burn No. 1, which has notes of amber, lemongrass, and cloves.
Itching to experiment with new angles and positions? This firm, yet comfortable, pillow is here to help you reach your climax no matter what you’re trying out. Plus, the cover is removable and machine washable for when things get a little messy.
There’s nothing less sexy than a stark, bright room. Set the mood with some ambiance lighting, care of the Monster Arc+ lamp. This color-changing lamp can turn any room into a pleasure palace, no app or WiFi required. It doubles as a wireless charger and has built-in sound-reactive lighting, too. Sexy, eh?
This adaptogenic formula contains adaptogens like shatavari, shilajit, epimedium, schisandra, cacao and maca to help target stress, stimulate the senses, support hormone balance, and spark creativity, both in the bedroom and out of it. Mmm.
Sexy gift sets
This box of minis from clean-pleasure brand High On Love is perfectly gift-able. All made with hemp oil, these stimulating oils will seduce your senses during foreplay. They also come with a mini vibrator for solo enjoyment!
Want to try all of the brand’s bestsellers at once? This limited edition kit features Foria’s Awaken Arousal Oil, Sex Oil (a lube), and two CBD suppository melts to take you to new orgasmic heights. It’s so good, you’ll want to keep it for yourself.
Want to splurge? This elegant leather set is packed with everything you might need to fill all of your BDSM fantasies, this luxury case is sexy, glamorous, and stocked. Including a leash, cuffs, restraints and more, it’s perfect for anyone that’s been on the naughty list.
Made for a toe-curling self-love session, this kit includes everything you need to turn your bathtub into a night of fun. The pack comes with a Water Slyde, which gives your tub faucet a stimulating makeover, and a tub of Bomb Balm Arousal Balm (say that five times fast), which aims to set the mood with tantalizing peppermint and silky oils.
Gifts to get you in the mood
There’s nothing more romantic than a picnic in the park, and this wine and cheese picnic basket is all you need. This high-quality picnic basket is equipped with a corkscrew, cheese knife, and a cutting board. Add some bread and fruit for an intimate day.
Spice things up with a weekend getaway at one of Postcard Cabins cabins. Located in more than 28 spots across the US, Postcard Cabins is the perfect gift for folks who want some dedicated alone time. In each tiny cabin, you’ll have access to a queen bed, an equipped kitchen, a hot shower, and a fire pit.
Take things up a notch with this mini fondue set. Featuring two fondue mugs, forks, and candles, this set allows you to melt chocolate and cheese for dipping fruit, crackers, or bread. It’s the romantic touch that every date needs.
Chocolate is sexy—always has been, always will be. And, with a melty consistency and mysterious center, we’d argue that the sexiest form of chocolate is a truffle. This 24-piece, dark chocolate set from Godiva is suggestive and sweet at the same time. Work your way through the assortment of flavors together (clothing optional).
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