Traditional Valentine’s Day gifts tend to skew cheesy, and while many folks adore rom-com-level romance, not everyone speaks the same love language. There are many ways to show your affection for a lady in your life—and it needn’t be limited to chocolate hearts and rose bouquets. For those of us who aren’t much for cloying displays of anything, there are plenty of non-cheesy Valentine’s Day gifts for her that perfectly express that special, three-word phrase.

The key to shopping for your SO—or your sister, mother, or Galentine—is looking for gifts that are both practical and thoughtful. If you’re looking to splurge, maybe it’s a keepsake that will last your sweetheart forever or a nice thing that she wouldn’t buy for herself. Something personalized can also make her feel special—yes, sentimental gifts can still feel sweet without being gooey.

Whether you’re coupled up, in a situationship, or in a committed relationship with your best girlfriends, find 20+ Valentine’s Day gift ideas that she’ll absolutely adore. For more, check out the best Valentine’s Day gifts for him—or anyone, for that matter.

Best Valentine’s Day gifts for her, at a glance:

For the self-care advocate: Flewd Whole Mood Bundle, $32For the homebody:Comme Si La Boxer Classica Trio, $275For the home cook: Staub Heart Shape Cocotte, $251For the couple: Intelligent Change Get Closer Conversation Game, $34For beauty lovers: Aveda Cherry Almond Set, $62

Non-cheesy Valentine’s Day gifts for her

Airbnb Gift Card — $25.00

Plan a romantic getaway with an Airbnb gift card that she can cash in at any time and anywhere there is an Airbnb. With listings in over 100,000 cities and more than 200 countries across the globe, the world, as they say, is her oyster.

Apothékary Free Spirits Minis Set — $59.00

If she’s extending Dry January into February or just wants an alcohol-free alternative to wind down at the end of a demanding day, consider giving her Apothékary’s Free Spirits Minis Set. It comes with three herbal tinctures—“Take the Edge Off,” “Rosé-Tinted Glasses,” and “Wine Down”—and Well+Good contributing writer Zoë Weiner wrote that each helped her kick alcohol and improve her sleep. Cheers to that!

Rosetta Stone Lifetime Membership — $165.00

If love is a language, why not make it literal? Rosetta Stone is the ultimate Valentine’s Day gift for the jet-setting romantic—or the one dreaming of being one. With bite-sized lessons in 25+ languages, she can brush up on French for that Paris getaway or finally tackle Italian (because pasta deserves proper pronunciation). It’s thoughtful, personal, and way more meaningful than a last-minute box of chocolates.

Oleada Le Coeur Set — $135.00

For the chic minimalist in your life, the Le Coeur Set by Oleada is a Valentine’s Day gift she’ll actually use (and adore). This vegan leather pouch and wallet duo is equal parts practical and stylish, perfect for organizing her essentials while staying effortlessly luxe. It’s the kind of thoughtful upgrade that says, “I see you—and your impeccably good taste.”

Catbird Dollhouse Gold Locket Necklace — $188.00

The Catbird Locket Necklace is an adorable way to keep her loved ones close to her heart. Made of 14-karat yellow gold, it can be engraved with up to seven letters in a signet-style font and has enough space to fit a photo. One thing to note: The locket comes without a chain, but you can purchase one at an additional cost, with options starting at $143.

Clare V Los Angeles Je T’aime Baseball Hat — $60.00

Spread the love this Valentine’s Day by giving a gift that is donating proceeds to Los Angeles Wildfire Relief Funds. Clare V released the “Los Angeles Je T’aime collection,” including the above baseball hat, all the proceeds of which will go to the Red Cross.

Aveda Cherry Almond Bath Set — $62.00

This cherry-almond scented bath set from Aveda will instantly upgrade her bath routine. The scent alone will make her swoon, but the 38 plant oils it’s formulated with do more than just smell good and will leave her skin and hair feeling softer than ever. The cherry on top!

Obakki Shine Bright Set — $171.00

The Kenya Gift Box by Obakki is the perfect mix of thoughtful and cool. It’s got gorgeous, hand-forged brass jewelry made by Kenyan artisans, so it feels super special—and it supports sustainable practices, which is a total win. She’ll love it, and you’ll definitely earn some brownie points.

Comme Si La Boxer Classica Trio — $275.00

Comme Si’s three-pack of boxers will make her feel like the main character of a romantic comedy. The boxers are made from soft and crisp Italian cotton poplin and have a relaxed fit. They’re so comfy, she won’t want to take them off.

Cou Cou Intimates The Balconette — $65.00

Treat yourself or a loved one to pretty Valentine’s Day lingerie. Cou Cou Intimates creates cute underwear that doesn’t forgo comfort. Case in point: The Balconette. It’s made from GOTS-certified organic cotton pointelle with a lace trim. Without stiff underwire or padding, it offers lightweight support for days you want to feel like you’re wearing nothing. Pair with the matching high-rise panties to complete the set.

Aerie Sherpa Scuff Slippers — $35.00

A romantic night in isn’t complete without a pair of cozy slippers, and for that, we love these Aerie scuffs. The warm sherpa, the adorable cherry print… what’s not to love?!

Figlia Me + You Bundle — $116.00

Me + You + Figlia? It’s a date. The ruby-red aperitif features a “floral, bitter, aromatic” flavor profile, and Figlia calls it a “zero-proof ode to the spritz”—one that is best savored slowly. The bundle includes two bottles of Figlia Fiore and a free tote bag.

Flewd Whole Mood Bundle — $32.00

The Flewd Bundle comes with a soak for her every mood, each of which combines ingredients like muscle-soothing magnesium and microminerals to alleviate stress. It includes the“SADs Smashing,” “Anxiety Destroying,” “Insomnia Ending,” and “Ache Erasing” soaks that also leave skin moisturized and pleasantly scented.

Intelligent Change Get Closer Conversation Game: Couples Edition — $34.00

Spark a heart-to-heart with the Intelligent Change Get Closer Conversation Game. It features 100 questions and prompts about “love, dreams, and experiences” to “strengthen relationships, enhance intimacy, and nurture connectedness.”

Kate McLeod Almond & Dark Chocolate Moisturizing Lotion Bar — $38.00

Give someone you heart (wink, wink) Kate McLeod’s limited-edition Moisturizing Lotion Bar. It’s made with cocoa butter, and nourishing oils (like apricot, sweet almond, avocado, and coconut) to leave skin soft, supple, and pleasantly scented. Select from two scents: sweet Almond and Dark Chocolate and sensuous Jasmine and Chamomile.

Trudon "Aphélie" - 100mL — $260.00

It’s hard to think of a more luxe gift than a bottle of Trudon perfume. The packaging alone is gorgeous and looks opulent on any vanity or countertop. But it’s the scent that will blow her away. “Aphélie” is a flirty musk with notes of rose, blackcurrant, sandalwood, and tonka bean that lingers long from first spritz. Sure, it’s a splurge, but one whiff and you’ll know it’s totally worth it (and lasts forever!).

Olfactory NYC At-Home Customization Experience — $85.00

Or, if she’s in search of a new signature scent, The Olfactory NYC At-Home Customization Experience allows her to create a truly personal fragrance. The process is simple. She just has to identify the core fragrance she loves most from the “Explorer Box,” and she’ll receive variations of her selected scent. Once she’s chosen her favorite variation, she’ll be mailed a full-size bottle of that same concoction.

OneQuince Royal Osetra Caviar — $125.00

Go all out with caviar from Quince—yes, that Quince. A 3.5-ounce tin of caviar, “sustainably harvested in Thousand Island Lake China,” comes with a mother-of-pearl spoon to impress your valentine. If you pre-order it now, you’ll get it just in time for Valentine’s Day.

The Pink Reef Hand-Painted Earrings — $78.00

Flowers are forever, at least when it comes to The Pink Reef Hand-Painted Earrings. Select from over 20 colors, ranging from white to emerald green and rosy red. Each one is unique and beautiful in their own way—just like she is.

Renpho Eye Massager — $200.00

If she needs to relax, get her the Paris Hilton-approved Renpho Eye Massager. It heats up and massages the eyes with air compression, helping relieve eye fatigue and dryness. The massager also includes Bluetooth, so it can play music directly from the device.

Rhode The Fall Duos — $42.00

For kissable lips and blushing cheeks, give her The Fall Duos. The curated set of Rhode’s internet-viral Peptide Lip Treatment and the impossibly cute (and just as popular) Pocket Blush is available in four pretty colorways. The pink Piggy and Ribbon shades pictured above are pitch-perfect for Valentine’s Day.

Satisfyer Pro 2 Modern Blossom — $40.00

She’ll bloom with pleasure at the sensation of the Satisfyer Pro 2 Modern Blossom, which fully lives up to its name. It features 11 intensity settings and flexible petals that flutter when it’s powered on. Yes, please.

1-800 Flowers Radiant Ranunculus Bouquet — $93.00

Or if she’s partial to real flowers, skip the carnations and get her a bouquet of these stunning ranunculi. They’re apparently the flower of the year for 2025, and it’s no wonder why—the beautiful, bauble-like buds add a whimsical splash of color to any space. They beat roses any day.

Staub 2.5-Qt. Heart Shape Cocotte — $251.00

The Staub Heart Shape Cocotte is the sweetest way to put date-night dinner on the table. Ideal for making soups, stews, or a heart-shaped dessert, it’s stovetop- and oven-safe up to 500 degrees Fahrenheit. At 2.5 quarts, it’s also just the right size to serve up to three people—or make two generous portions for you and your valentine.

Zu’s Candies Classic Checkerboard Box — $65.00

If a heart-shaped box of candies feels stale, Zu’s Candies come in a checkered acrylic box that she can use long after the candies are gone. Each purchase comes with your choice of three candies and will arrive bedecked with a pretty bow.