Is Valentine’s Day a Hallmark holiday? Yes. Is it also a great excuse to give yourself or someone you care about a little extra TLC? Absolutely. Whether you’re partnered-up, in the throes of dating, or perfectly happy being single, February 14th is a day to spread some love. And, with the big day just around the corner and love heavy in the air (or at least, every shop window and website homepage), you might be feeling the pressure to shop for a gift. Fear not friends and lovers: however you’re planning to celebrate this V-Day, our Valentine’s Day gift guide—which includes a pan you can use to whip up a candlelit meal, a luxurious robe, and a sensual massage oil—is sure to give you heart eyes. Read on to explore over 20 gifts, all focused on relaxation, indulgence, intimacy, and self-care.

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Self-Care Gifts

Milk + Honey, Muscle Soak — $30.00

When thinking of self care, baths are one of the first things that comes to mind. Whether you’re soaking in one to relieve aches and pains or simply for the sake of a soothing night in, this potent muscle soak is packed with eucalyptus, arnica, rosemary, and sweet marjoram for ultimate relaxation and rejuvenation. Enjoy solo or with company. 

Lush, Best of Bath Bombs Duo — $18.00

Upgrade your next bath for a festive fizz. This set of aromatic bath bombs from Lush features two bestsellers: Twilight, which smells of lavender and tonka, and Sex Bomb, which smells of rose and jasmine and leaves your bath water a festive pink. 

Uwila Warrior, Sustainable Robe — $183.00

When you’re ready to get out of the bath, this robe from Uwila Warrior is the perfect thing to wrap up in. It’s made from sustainably-sourced wood pulp and has four strategically-located pockets—yeah, good luck getting yourself to take it off. (The color’s called Nirvana for a reason.)

Home Gifts

The Sill, Wild(flower) About You Grow Kit — $85.00

Don’t get us wrong, we’ll never say no to cut flowers. But for a botanical gift that keeps on giving, check out this adorable love-themed grow kit from The Sill. The blush-colored ceramic pot comes with morning glory seeds, ready to grow. Plus, the set includes a mister and additional wildflower seed balls that contain a blend of black eyed Susan, zinnia, cosmo, and poppy seeds.

Plants.com, Hoya Heart Succulent — $40.00

Not that we ever need a reason to buy another plant, but if you find a heart-shaped succulent baby, it would just be wrong not to add it to your growing collection or gift it to someone you love. This potted pal comes either as a double or a single heart, and you have the option to add on a sweet chocolate treat.

Easyplant, Ficus Ruby — $189.00

A friend recently told me that the best gift she’s ever received from her husband is a self-watering ficus from Easyplant. Their brilliant planters make it so all you have to do is fill a hidden reservoir with water once a month and let your plant baby’s roots drink up as much as they need. If you’re constantly fretting over whether you’re giving your plants too much (or too little) love, this beautiful red and green ficus ruby—and the added peace of mind—will make a great gift. And if the ficus is too big, there’s also a smaller pink aglaonema ($49) that basically screams “I love you!”

Vitruvi, Aromatherapy Diffuser — $115.00

Originally $123, now $115

Scent can play a major role in helping to relax your brain, so why not fill the air with essential oils throughout your home with this minimalist diffuser that doubles as an aesthetically pleasing piece of decor? Whether you gift it or keep it for yourself, this pick is just as joy-inducing to look at as it is to smell.

Boy Smells, LES Candle — $48.00

With notes of black currant, peach blossom, jasmine rice, cardamom and white cedar, the LES Candle is a scent exploration that embraces the eclectic culture of New York’s Lower East Side. It’s perfect for bath time and bedtime alike. Oh, and if this scent isn’t calling your name, check out our list of other excellent Valentine’s Day candles.

FluffCo, Down Alternative Pillow — $69.00

Originally $115, now $69

A solid night of sleep is the ultimate gift you can give yourself or someone you love. If you love flopping onto perfectly made hotel beds, this pillow was designed to bring your favorite part of that luxury sleeping experience into your own bedroom. It’s available in standard and king sizes, and you can choose between softer or firmer fluff. 

Quince, 100% Mulberry Silk Pillowcase — $40.00

Speaking of pillows, this 100 percent mulberry silk pillowcase from Quince makes for a luxe (but affordable!) gift. It’s super soft, machine washable, and full of hair-and-skin benefits. Plus, you’ll find it in two sizes (Full/Queen or King) and 12 different colors.

Brooklinen, Weighted Comforter — $249.00

Brooklinen’s weighted comforter is a hug without, uh, a hugger. If you or your giftee like the soothing feeling of a good cuddle, this weighted option engulfs you in an embrace as you snooze for your most peaceful rest yet. It’s available in three sizes: twin/twin XL, queen/full, or king/California king.

Our Place, The Always Pan 2.0 — $150.00

Three cheers for the pan that has taken over the world. Made to replace your fry pan, sauté pan, steamer, skillet, saucer, saucepan, non-stick pan, spatula, and spoon rest, this ceramic non-stick pan is the ultimate multi-tasking kitchen essential for whipping up your favorite V-day meal. It’s available in three sizes and 11 fun colors. Bon appétit!

Intimate Gifts

Foria, Intimacy Massage Oil — $32.00

Grab your Valentine, that homemade massage voucher, and Foria’s Intimacy Massage Oil because it’s about to get sensual up in here. This all-natural oil is made with organic ingredients like avocado oil, ylang ylang oil, vanilla and cardamom extracts, and vitamin E. We’ve tried it and we can attest: it’s non-sticky, absorbs quickly, smells dreamy, and certainly helps set the mood for more.

Rosy, From $9.99 per month

A better understanding of your sexual health? Now that’s a gift. Meet Rosy, the platform that aims to provide a personalized wellness plan for women who want to feel empowered about their sexual health and pleasure. The subscription-based Rosy app features educational content, erotica, workshops, and even group and one-on-one coaching with sex experts (depending on your subscription type). Whether you’re hoping to rev up your intimacy with a partner or explore your sexuality on your own, there’s a Rosy membership for you.

MysteryVibe, Crescendo 2 — $209.00

This versatile vibe is fully bendable so you can customize its shape and hit your personal targets e.v.e.r.y. time. The Crescendo 2 features six (!) strategically placed motors, 12 vibration settings, and 16 power settings—if that feels intimidating to you, don’t worry, you can take full control of the Crescendo 2 (or let someone else) in the companion app. It’s also waterproof, USB-rechargeable, and comes with a two-year warranty.

The Adventure Challenge Game, Couples Edition — $50.00

If emotional intimacy is what you’re after, look no further than the Couples Edition of the Adventure Challenge Game. This interactive gift includes fifty scratch-off dates that are intended to help you and your S/O embrace your playful sides and feel closer than ever.

Fitness Gifts

Sticky Be Socks, Be Mine Grip Socks — $16.00

Perfect for the barre or pilates lover, these fine cotton yarn grip socks will keep you secure no matter how sweaty your soles get when working out. They’re super breathable, offer extra arch support, and have padded foot beds for tons of cushion and comfort. (That sounds like the ultimate love language to us.)

Alo, ⅞ High-Waist Airlift Legging — $128.00

Whether for sweating or for lounging, there is no such thing as having too many leggings. This pair from Alo feels like a second skin, so they are perfect for curling up on the couch for a solo movie date. We love the Mulberry color for Valentine’s Day, but if it’s sold out a solid black will always do.  

Therabody, Theragun Mini — $169.00

Originally $199, now $169 

Therabody’s smallest massage gun is anything but meek. In fact, for most folks, it can be easier to use than their more tricked-out models. The Mini still features three speeds and comes with three different attachments, plus a neat little zip-up carrying case. You can also choose from three colors: black, desert rose, and white. Psst: Many of Therabody’s other devices are on sale for Valentine’s Day, too.

Beauty Gifts

Dior, Addict Lip Tint — $40.00

Nothing screams “romance” like a red lip, and as Dolly Parton once said, “The redder the better.” This no-transfer, semi-matte tint from Dior will stay firmly in place. It’s made with natural ingredients and even includes cherry oil for kissable softness. And, if this red (called Natural Poppy) isn’t for you, there are four other options to choose from.

Chillhouse, She's On Holiday Chill Tips — $16.00

Chill Tips are for the manicure-lover who likes to take matters into their own hands (literally). The set comes with 24 press-on nails of various sizes, as well as non-toxic nail glue, a buffer, and cuticle stick. They’re easy to apply and remove, and as long as you take them off carefully (no picking!) you can re-use them time and again.

SolaWave, Red Light Therapy Wand — $169.00

When you’re craving a facial from the comfort of your couch, this advanced skincare tool is all you need. It combines four powerful (and proven) dermatologic functions—microcurrents, red light therapy, warming, and vibration—into a very petite package.

Pai Skincare, Dinner Out Mask — $49.00

Planning to celebrate your self love with an at-home spa day? This gentle, purifying mask from Pai Skincare is exactly what you need. It’s both creamy and cooling, and the silky Kaolin clay helps to re-balance skin in just 10 minutes. Pai says it’s best for blemish-prone skin, all skin types can benefit from its soothing (and mostly organic) ingredients.

Edreé, The Loulou — $149.00

Is hair a love language? Perhaps for some. If you’re hoping to upgrade your styling tools, look no further than the new, woman-owned California brand Edreé. Their two-in-one styler (called The Loulou) uses titanium and tiny cool-shot air vents to create safe and long-lasting styles. We tried it, and we loved it, especially because the 360-degree swivel cord made curling a breeze. Also, the packaging and the design make this a beautiful gift (and the price is relatively affordable compared to other multi-use styling tools we’ve reviewed).

Jewelry Gifts

Aivia, Chain With Magnetic Clasp — $125.00

Aivia’s gorgeous pieces are designed to be versatile and compact. We love this necklace because the magnetic hexagon clasp means you can style the 32-inch box chain in a variety of lengths (think of it as several necklaces in one!). Choose from gold- or white-rhodium plating.

Aurate, Vintage Emerald Cut Ring — $200.00

Fit for a queen, this ring has big-time The Crown vibes. With multiple classic stone options, this carbon-neutral, sustainably-sourced ring will make you feel like the royal you are.

Gold Hill, Initial Necklace — $15.00

Originally $25, now $15

This sweet initial necklace is a subtle yet sincere display of affection. You can add up to nine letters and choose from a variety of metals (such as 14 karat gold-plated or sterling silver) and chain lengths. No judgement if you wind up going with your pet’s initials—we definitely did that.

Other Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas

If you’re shopping for your S/O and a material gift isn’t the vibe this Valentine’s Day, consider an IOU-voucher or a gift card. Maybe they’d love a massage. Or perhaps they’d prefer an activity you can do together, like a cooking class through Cozymeal, which lets you search for and book culinary experiences in your area. And if spending any cash at all on Valentine’s Day just isn’t in the cards this year, don’t underestimate the power of quality time. A board-game date night or an evening alone cuddled up with your favorite movie are both completely legitimate ways to celebrate love on February 14th.