Even if Valentine’s Day isn’t your favorite holiday of the year, it’s still an excuse to ramp up the passion with your partner—and that’s never anything to complain about. (The impossible task of scoring a dinner reservation, however, is another story….) But how, exactly, to elevate your sex game on February 14? For starters, it helps to have the right toys in your nightstand—ones that’ll help send both you and your date into a blissed-out state. Luckily, we’ve got no shortage of suggestions for sexy Valentine’s Day gifts that aim to help you crank up the heat in a healthy way, whether you’re partnered up or just looking to give yourself some much-deserved TLC. From lacy lingerie to slippery lubes to “love potions” guaranteed to get you in the mood fast, read on to shop gifts that will make this V-day a lot hotter.

Best sexy Valentine's Day gifts, at a glance:

Maude Burn No. 1 Massage Candle, $32Tata Harper Love Potion, $68Sexy MONQ Aromatherapy Diffuser, $30Moon Juice Sex Dust Adapotogenics, $38100 Flirty & Dirty Sex Questions Game, $15Playground Naked Love Water-Based Lube, $20The Rose Lover’s Gift Box, $79Lelo Tor 3 Pleasure Ring, $119JimmyJane Hello Touch Pro Vibrators, $119The Little Book of Kama Sutra, $10Hanky Panky 5-Pack Original Lace Thongs, $108Blush Iris Bodysuit, $74Lilosy Mesh Valentine’s Day Set, $22

Best sexy Valentine’s Day gifts for setting the mood

Maude Burn No. 1 Massage Candle — $32.00

Looking for a little ambiance? Just strike a match and light this candle from Maude to get things started. Sexy amber and cedar leaf work to set the mood, while warm jojoba wax melts into a silky body oil, perfect for taking things a step further with a sensual massage.

Tata Harper Love Potion — $68.00

Have a hard time letting loose between the sheets? This blend of aromatherapy oils is meant to reduce sexual anxiety and tension, while boosting feelings of inner-beauty and confidence.

Sexy MONQ Aromatherapy Diffuser — $30.00

Filled with patchouli (one of the world’s oldest aphrodisiacs) and jasmine (believed to increase desire), this aromatherapy diffuser-vape pen requires just one puff for what the company promises to be an instant turn-on effect.

Moon Juice Sex Dust Adaptogenics — $38.00

Add a scoop of this adaptogenic powder to pre-date lattes—one for you, one for your partner—and watch your sexual energy, sensitivity, and stamina fire up in the bedroom. (Or outside of it, if that’s what you’re into.)

100 Flirty & Dirty Sex Questions Game — $15.00

This deck of 100 sexy questions will help you and your partner shake things up on Valentine’s Day and beyond. Ranging from flirty to downright dirty, you’ll find plenty of stimulating conversation starters inside for couples of all orientations.

Gifts for getting it on

Playground Naked Love Lube — $20.00

This scent-free lube from Playground is silky and simple—it’s made with vegan, all-natural ingredients like ashwagandha and hyaluronic acid for a boost of latex-safe moisture and adaptogens. Plus, we love the non-sticky formula and the fact that it won’t irritate your most sensitive spots.

The Rose Lover's Gift Box — $79.00

If you’ve not already bought yourself or someone you care about a rose suction toy, this is your sign. This pick from Lovers includes the coveted air suction toy—which features three intensity levels and seven vibe patterns— plus a collection of faux roses in a heart-shaped box (cause duh!).

Lelo Tor 3 Pleasure Ring — $119.00

If you’re looking to change up your coitus routine, check out the Tor 3 pleasure ring from luxury toy brand Lelo. It’s a soft silicone ring that features a vibrating head to add more sensation to your romp. You can even change the eight vibration settings via the Lelo companion app to avoid fumbling around in the moment. Best of all, it’s currently $40 off for Valentine’s Day.

JimmyJane Hello Touch Pro Vibrators — $119.00

These silicone finger vibrators help take your partner’s touch (or your own) to the next level. The set includes two bullet vibes that feature 10 vibration modes and can be used with or without the finger attachments. We also love that this little duo comes in an unassuming case that you can easily take on the go.

The Little Book of Kama Sutra — $10.00

Inspired by the OG guide to crazy-good sex, this modern remake features all the classic poses alongside a few brand-new moves.

Lingerie gifts

Hanky Panky Holiday 5-Pack (V-Day Colors) — $108.00

The gift of great lace undies is honestly an act of self-love. Whether you’re hoping to send a “let’s do this” message to your S/O, or just want to feel a little sexier under your jeans on February 14, this five-pack of lace thongs from Hanky Panky (in Valentine’s Day-themed colors, no less) will deliver.

Blush Iris Bodysuit — $74.00

We’re big fans of Blush for their quality lingerie, reasonable pricing, and inclusive sizing. This sweet and sexy bodysuit would look amazing on anyone, especially in this saucy “scarlet” color. Sizes range from XS—2XL.

Lilosy Mesh Valentine's Day Set — $22.00

Find us a more Valentine’s Day-appropriate lingerie set—we’ll wait. This (super affordable) mesh set from Lilosy is covered in sweet little hearts and bows, fit for the occasion. And if red isn’t your color, it comes in over 20 different options. Sizes range from 3XS to 3XL.

If you’re more into self-love this year, check out these 9 wellness gifts to give yourself for Valentine’s Day. While you’re at it, give this 20-minute loving kindness meditation a try.