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Sex is more than just a feel-good act: The health benefits that come with a roll in the hay are equally mind-blowing. And with the rise of femtech, there are now more ways than ever to spice up your pleasure routine—with or without a partner. I’m looking to you, body-safe vibrators.
Zoë Ligon is a sex educator and the founder of the Spectrum Boutique.
“Vibrators have gone much more mainstream,” says Claire Cavanah, co-founder of the Seattle-based (sex) toy store Babeland. “They’re more widely accepted and there’s less stigma about buying and using them.”
And ladies aren’t just stocking up on the new toys; they’re making them, too. “More women have been able to break into the pleasure products market in the last decade,” says Myisha Battle, a certified sex coach based in San Francisco. “More women designing products means that they bring their perspective. They can reach more deeply into female markets because their products solve some of the problems that women have faced for decades with male-designed toys.” (Preach!)
Even so, shopping for a vibrator—even if it’s not your first—can be an intimidating experience. With so many options, where do you start?
Buying a body-safe vibrator
Experts say to read the materials list first. “Sex toys aren’t FDA-regulated products, and materials like phthalates and Bisphenol A (BPA) that are banned in children’s toys are still allowed in sex toys,” Cavanah says. (Reminder: Both are major hormone disruptors, and have been linked to cancer and reduced sperm count—talk about a turn off!) Look instead for vibrators made from medical-grade, nonporous materials such as silicone, elastomer, stainless steel, or Pyrex.
And just like you wouldn’t buy new sneakers or switch up your beauty routine without researching your options first, do your due diligence before purchasing a new vibrator. “I always recommend reading multiple reviews of a toy before buying, ideally from sex toy reviewers who are experts on the matter,” says Zoë Ligon, sex educator and founder of Detroit-based shop Spectrum Boutique. “That way, you can easily learn the pros and cons of choosing that toy over similar models.”
And if you’re really looking for something simplified, adult toy retailer Good Vibrations gives each product a sustainability rating that takes into consideration things like the use of natural ingredients, whether it’s free of animal products, or if it’s made in the United States.
Ready to dive in (between the sheets)? Scroll for our favorite options below.
Consider Dame the Thinx of pleasure products: A start-up helmed by two young women (one got her mechanical engineering degree from MIT, the other studied clinical psychology at Columbia University, NBD) with a focus on a super-effective, lady-centric products…with stylish design sensibility to boot. T
he, ahem, buzz around its Eva vibrator has been warranted—the water-resistant, hands-free vibrator has a winged design meant to help it stay in place tucked under the labia. This allows for clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex—so your (or your partner’s) hands can wander at will. Plus, it’s rechargeable via USB (and phthalate-free, of course).
For fans of the slurpy, soft clitoral suction feel, go with The Poet from Smile Makers. It’s sold with three interchangeable “mouths”, allowing you to mix and match as you please. Like the others on this list, it’s made with only the good stuff that’s safe for you and your partner.
This flexible, ergonomically designed vibrator uses sensors and an integrated smartphone app to pick up on your body’s unique patterns during sexual activity. That way, you can learn more about what gets you hot and bothered, and adapt your tactics as needed. (Like, maybe cranking Drake really does set the mood.) Plus, it has a low-battery indicator and is 100 percent body-safe.
Less is more when it comes to the Maude Vibe. This ergonomic vibrator is a straight-shooter, designed with a flutter tip for toe-curling external stimulation. Plus, it’s made from 100 percent phthalate-free, body-safe platinum-grade silicone and—just in case the unexpected happens in the throes of passion—it comes with a one-year warranty.
Want body-safe on a budget? Get your hands on the Cyra from Jimmyjane, a silky soft dildo meant to hit all the right places. The phthalate-free, latex-free silicone design includes an ergonomic finger holder for easier pleasure. And it’s waterproof, making bath time that much more fun.
We know, we know—stainless steel is a little intimidating. This isn’t a kitchen appliance, after all.
But stainless steel is a very body-safe material renowned for its weight, density, and hygiene. This one from Le Wand features a curved edge great G-spots stimulation. Since it’s stainless, it can be warmed up or cooled down to your liking. Plus, it’s safe with all types of lube, making it that much more versatile.
This self-pleasure item was created by a team of women who believe that, ahem, alone time is a vital part of self-care. It’s made with soft-touch, body-safe silicone material and anti-dust coating that’s water resistant and easy to wash. The Sakura also comes with a case that makes it easy to charge and store. (And it’s pretty enough that you wouldn’t mind leaving it out on your dresser.)
Couples can now use their smartphones to control their partner’s vibrator—whether they’re in the same room or different cities—thanks to the OhMiBod Remote App. The high-tech vibrator is made from body-safe materials, while the app let’s you create your own patterns and convert sounds into vibrations (whoa).
The Sundaze is about to take your next lazy sunday to a new level. This thrusting toy is designed to give you deeper, fuller, more satisfying orgasms, thrust after thrust. It’s made from a silky body-safe silicone that feels good inside and out. It’s waterproof too, so if your sunday plans involve a bubble bath, you can take it with you.
Want to get your SO (or random hook-up, no judgement) involved? The We-Vibe Sync’s designed to be enjoyed with a partner, since it can be adjusted to fit your shape (stimulating both the clitoris and G-spot) and stays in place while you change positions. The device, made from latex and phthalate-free silicone, comes with a remote control that can be used from up to nine feet away. Because who says you need to be close together in order to get intimate?
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We often think about sex toys as a solo activity—however, that's definitely not always the case. True, a self-care sesh with a quality toy is never a bad idea, especially on Valentine's Day. But even if you're coupled up, there are plenty of ways to play as a pair with tech-forward sex toys from Lovense. The brand specializes in a wide range of vibrators, suction toys, and more, most of which are designed to be used in tandem with your partner's device (thanks to cool Bluetooth technology and an easy-to-use app), even if you're across the country. So, whether you're together IRL or chatting long-distance this February 14, you'll feel closer than ever. Best of all, the Lovense Valentine's Day Sale is already live, so you can score up to 55 percent off on the brand's best sellers in preparation for the big day. Ready to get vibing? Scroll on to learn more about the sale, which runs now through February 16, plus shop the Lovense toys the W+G team has an eye on.
Take 53 percent off this small-but-mighty vibe that clips discreetly into your undies. The ergonomic design and quiet motor offer three intensity levels and seven vibration patterns—all controlled with the Lovense app.
This duo is crazy impressive, especially if you're in a heterosexual LDR. No matter how far apart you are from your boo, you can sync this sleeve masturbator (Max) and rabbit-vibe (Nora) to respond to each other's movements. Each device is made with body-safe materials and comes with an extensive range of vibrations you can control via the Lovense app. Plus, at 53 percent off, bundling these two toys is a real steal.
Waterproof: Nora-yes, Max-no | Vibrations: Customizable with the app or your partners movements | Runtime: Nora-4 hours, Max-1.5 hours
This suction toy is the perfect addition to any collection. The Tenera 2 (now 50 percent off) uses pulses of air and a soft silicone tip to stimulate your clitoris, all while fitting comfortably in the palm of your hand. And, because you can control the vibrations and patterns via the Lovense app, it's another great pick for partners who are spending Valentine's Day apart.
Waterproof: Yes | Vibrations: Unlimited combinations via the app |Runtime: 1.2 hours
If G-spot vibrators are your thing, snag the Lush 3 while it's 50 percent off. The ergonomic, egg-shaped head is coated in smooth, body-safe silicone for a comfortable fit, while the small tail helps keep the toy in place. As with most Lovense toys, you can take full control of the intensity and vibration patterns in the remote app, or pass off control to a partner—even if you're not in the same room.
Waterproof: Yes | Vibrations: Unlimited combinations via the app |Runtime: 4.5 hours
Take 50 percent off this travel-friendly wand vibe. The Domi 2 might look unassuming, but it has a few tricks up its sleeve: For starters, the small size still packs a big punch with rumbly vibrations that can be customized via the Lovense app. But more impressive yet is the fact that Lovense also sells male and female attachments for the Domi 2 to reach P-spot and G-spot pleasure points.
Waterproof: No (water resistant) | Vibrations: Unlimited combinations via the app |Runtime: 6 hours
Another G-spot vibe, the Osci 2 features a soft silicone body and an oscillating tip to mimic that tried-and-true "come hither" motion. Toggle between the toy's three speeds and seven vibration patterns, either on the toy itself or via the Lovense app. Best of all, it's currently 50 percent off.
The Hush 2 (currently 53 percent off) is vibrating plug made from soft, body-safe silicone. It comes in four sizes—extra-small, small, medium, and large—to fit all bodies and experience levels, and has a flared base for safety. You or your partner can control the toy's unlimited vibration and intensity combinations via the Lovense app, even from a distance.
Waterproof: Yes | Vibrations: Unlimited combinations via the app |Runtime: 2 hours
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It’s been the longest January to have ever Januaried, and the past few weeks have been a little ~weird~ to say the least. In spite of (*gestures broadly*) everything, it’s important to find joy where you find it—like spending quality time with loved ones, indulging in favorite pastimes, or of course, some retail therapy. Buying things isn’t a prerequisite for happiness, but shopping for joy-boosting products can feel like a nice sliver of normalcy amidst all of the unknown.
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Well+Good editors have weathered this year-long month with items that invited more joy into our lives. Winter skincare staples and nice-to-haves—like an internet-viral sweater and what might be the best white T-shirt to have landed in our closets—made it into our shopping carts. Others leaned on items that would make their mundane routines more joyful.
Without further ado, scroll to see the products that made Well+Good editors so happy in January. We hope at least one of these items infuses more joy into your life, too. Better yet? The majority are under the $100 mark. And for more retail therapy, see our past Joy of the Month picks.
“I’ve been trying to shop local this month and came across this amazing Seattle-based fragrance brand called Particle Goods at a neighborhood art fair. The brand sells candles, incense, and air fresheners, but the real star of the show is their scent rollers. I got a scent called Nova, which has notes of cedarwood, dark plum, black tea, and fig. All of their scents are made with a jojoba and safflower oil base, which means they’re not only all-natural but also long-wearing—and I mean long. I’ll roll it on my wrists and neck a few times in the morning and I can smell it all day! You can shop at its beautiful online store and they ship nationwide.”
“Winter on the East Coast has been especially brutal this year, and this barrier balm by KaramMD has been literally saving my skin! It’s an ultra-hydrating moisturizer that keeps my skin from drying out from the cold air, while also giving me a nice dewy glow. It’s the final step in my skincare routine, like the cherry on top of healthy, hydrated skin.”*
“The Aer Go Sling 2 is my first foray into fanny packs and, no exaggeration, I’m a changed woman. Purses are a pain for me to carry, but stuffing my pockets isn’t ideal either. The Go Sling 2 is the perfect compromise. It’s small enough not to feel like a burden, and its sub-compartments appease my need for organization. Plus, it manages to fit my phone, wallet, power bank, and hand sanitizer without it being a squeeze. It isn’t the most stylish of packs, but I prefer its unassuming appearance. It’s the only bag I’ve used since I got it—and yes, it brings me joy.”
“My obsession with these glue stick-adjacent balm tubes started when I worked in restaurants—I wanted to keep a chapstick or hydrating thing on me, but the devastation of losing a tiny lip tube to a chef coat pocket that I’d be throwing into the communal laundry at the end of the night, never to be seen again, brought me to very evident tubes and I’d remember to take them with me. These days, I love Aquaphor’s balm stick for wintry chapped lips, but I also use it on my hands for a quick swipe of hydration when I don’t feel like rubbing lotion into my hands but need to keep cracked, dry skin at bay.”
“Fostering community has been top of mind for me, and there truly is no better way to do that, IMO, than sharing a meal together. Dinner at Our Place is unique in that it provides 12 different dinner party concepts with everything planned out: a menu with accompanying recipes, tablescape suggestions, bar setups, playlists, and a list of to-dos in the days prior to the event (one of the less-glamorous, but oh-so-necessary requirements for a successful gathering). Whether skimming it for inspiration or using it as a step-by-step guide for my next event, this truly is one of the most joyful cookbooks in my collection.”
“Brace yourself, I’m about to make a very bold statement. I believe I have found the best basic white tee. First of all, this is a unisex tee which is a must for someone like me who prefers a comfortable, looser-fitting top. Most importantly, this tee features a drop shoulder which means the likelihood of getting unsightly, yellow sweat stains over time is very low. This shirt is also the perfect blend of hemp and organic cotton so it holds its shape incredibly well and a skin-toned bra does not show through. I REPEAT: this white T-shirt is not see-through! A white tee and jeans is a must for me when transitioning from cold to warmer weather since this also looks incredible peeking out the top of a sweater when you need an extra layer.”
“I’ve been seeing this sweatshirt all over TikTok and Instagram, and it seems like all of the influencers have one. I couldn’t help but wonder, How great could this sweatshirt be? But I finally got the hype. It’s the perfect amount of oversized, with such a soft but thick material, and it’s oh-so-cute. And I’m more obsessed with the mock-neck detail than I could imagine. The embroidered logo makes it feel so high quality, I reach for this every. single. morning.”
